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		<title>The Stolen Queen by Fiona Davis is an Adventure in Time and Place without the Jetlag</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I loved my chat with author Fiona Davis about her bestselling novel, The Stolen Queen. This is Fiona’s 8th novel. She didn’t start writing novels until she was 45 and her first national bestseller, The Lions of Fifth Avenue, came out eight years later  when Fiona was 53.  Each of her books is set in...</p>
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<p class="Script">I loved my chat with author Fiona Davis about her bestselling novel, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/The-Stolen-Queen-A-Novel/dp/B0D1ZN9N5Y/ref=sr_1_1?crid=172TTHVAHT1VS&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Zi7CIVbGX29ujQPJrnQUnaGNiIntdNxf-frJwuOZ-uorGxTnhABlcskqwol1dlzaHlvH1OTV_7DS1Z5-BZTcNumHFW05APdPC65-8AMvkWmtdZTjgoXcJIAtMHbdxvWp_DJNRlLKqOyTdljQjxrlYn49MPjQSYBqQTmjlov5gAwHq35HDXo5IoCDAy5OeaHGAMK4IHfdThG9yA9kVVYLFw.KneOU83u1l8W4yDzgz8w88afKYXC2Qzheg6LKbH0jhk&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=the+stolen+queen&amp;qid=1763817093&amp;s=audible&amp;sprefix=the+stolen+queen%2Caudible%2C187&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Stolen Queen</a>. This is Fiona’s 8<sup>th</sup> novel. She didn’t start writing novels until she was 45 and her first national bestseller, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Lions-Fifth-Avenue-Novel/dp/B085PXWQJ4/ref=sr_1_1?crid=56EQCNJW6CZO&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.BDQx2FVaXNTV6R2viB88CWIfx2vt3bwMQnKVi8VjWxIkye5cr_mGLf2xviehq6YEVCFb2XpfrFGx5DuYc2KAYpwPLEEbRRkCctfPkuXTCAQZ5T9yVYEU-Ug4057nn9lM_i6-6zGti2IbFhI9FIyb1tfGSOYeqZw6Ljal9tgeYmUdV1zJMfrnM7tqu5CnfamThHua5o3FhuhCwKphhR29rAhrrXPMUKGKqRenHDS4gDY.h1XuIXPUYgIViERVOeLvUGtlYzguMfZlhG4YjxOBsv8&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=the+lions+of+fifth+avenue&amp;qid=1763817055&amp;sprefix=the+lions+of+fifth+avenue%2Caps%2C204&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Lions of Fifth Avenue</a>, came out eight years later  when Fiona was 53.  Each of her books is set in a New York City landmark from Radio City Music Hall to The Chelsea Hotel to the New York Public Library. Below is just an edited snippet from our conversation. You can listen to the full episode <a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com/p/ep-36-unveiling-hidden-histories" target="_blank" rel="noopener">here</a> on <a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Elena Meets the Author</a> or wherever you listen to podcasts.</p>
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<p class="Script">The Stolen Queen follows a dual-timeline story taking us first to New York in 1978 where a 60-year-old, shy, studious woman named Charlotte Cross, working as a curator at the Metropolitan Museum, is unwillingly teamed up with a 19-year-old overexcited staffer for the Met Ball named Annie to track down a stolen artifact. These two women could not be more different and to Cairo they go. There&#8217;s a cameo from Diana Vreeland who made the Met Ball what it is. Fiona called her &#8216;a tornado&#8217; of a woman.</p>
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<p class="Script">Fiona’s fast-paced, detail-rich novel, which she describes as part <em>Indiana Jones</em>, part <em>Thelma and Louise</em> and part <em>The Devil Wears Prada</em>, made me want to hop on a plane to Cairo. I wanted to experience the hazy sand-filled orange sky, the ancient tombs in the Valley of the Kings, and the chaotic maize-like streets of Cairo.</p>
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<p>We travel back in time to 1936 Egypt where a much younger 18-year-old Charlotte heads to Egypt as part of her university studies to be the Girl Friday for a group of archaeologists. There, tragedy strikes causing Charlotte to flee Egypt, never to return again until fate intervenes 42 years later, ie 1978.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>Elena: What is your process? Do you start with the story or the building?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">The building definitely. I was a journalist before I started writing fiction, and so doing all that research is important to me. That’s where all my story ideas come from.  I try and not think about characters or story, just let the history wash over me and little details will start to stick. It&#8217;s just a matter of doing enough research and trusting my gut.</p>
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<p class="Script">For the research on the New York Public Library for <em>The Lions of Fifth Avenue</em>, I found that they built a seven-room apartment deep inside the library for the super and his family to live in. They lived there for 30 years. Their daughter was born in the library.  I read that and thought, okay, a family living in the library, where do I go from there?</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong> Elena: And for The Stolen Queen, what sparked that story?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> I saw that the pharaoh Hatshepsut had a whole gallery at the Met and realised wow, this was an important woman. And then I learned about how she was really lost to history.  That’s one of the things I&#8217;m drawn to, every book I&#8217;ve done, there&#8217;s been some character inspired by a woman who got shafted.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b>  <strong>Can you tell us a little bit about Hatshepsut?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Hatshepsut was Egyptian royalty. She married her half-brother at the age of 12 as one did in Egyptian royalty. He died not long after and she didn&#8217;t have a son. And so, the, the crown went to the son of one of the concubines, but it was a baby.</p>
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<p class="Script">So, in the meantime, Hatshepsut stepped up and became the regent. And she ruled as the Pharaoh for 20 years, very successfully. There were all these advances, peace and prosperity. And then she died. And at some point, her stepson, who came to power, ordered many of her statues destroyed, her images hacked out of any reliefs. And so because of that, Hatshepsut was really lost to history. People knew she ruled, but they didn&#8217;t know much about her.</p>
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<p class="Script">And it wasn&#8217;t until the Met team were doing a dig in the 1920s, they found this huge quarry filled with her statues and realized, she must have been very important. But what happened? And they said, well, it must&#8217;ve been that the stepson was angry that she ruled for so long.  The Met catalog described her in the fifties as a vain, ambitious, unscrupulous woman and a detested stepmother.</p>
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<p class="Script">But then 10 years later a scholar found that the destruction had to have happened at least 24 years after her death which is a long time to hold a grudge. And they realized, no, it was about the line of succession. The stepson wanted his son to rule and didn&#8217;t want the idea of a female pharaoh out in the zeitgeist. So that&#8217;s why he did it. Her journey as a woman pharaoh has been fraught in a way that male pharaohs rarely are.</p>
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<p class="Script">Not only did this book make me want to explore far-flung locales, but it also made me want to consider exploring what’s closer to home, namely The Metropolitan Museum of Art. Fiona’s web site has a <a href="https://static1.squarespace.com/static/566f1854d82d5ef0c161ea5e/t/67af8d8ed48fa4109a5f0da9/1739558306179/THE+STOLEN+QUEEN+Scavenger+Hunt+%281%29+%281%29.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener">scavenger hunt page</a> where several objects mentioned in<em> The Stolen Queen</em> can be found at the Met. It’s quite a fun post-read activity.</p>
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<p class="Script">My favorite object on the Met scavenger hunt was the <em>Fragment of a Queen&#8217;s Face</em> which in the novel is called the Cerulean Queen, linked to a fictional pharaoh Hathorkare who is based on the real life pharaoh Hatshepsut.</p>
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<p>Second favorite was the broad collar:</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>What do you hope readers take away from your book?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">If you like going to museums, or even if you don&#8217;t like going to museums, the key is to go and look at a museum, like the Met, not as a collection of objects, but as a collection of stories. Get a guide, join a tour, let the experts tell you about these objects. It gives you a much better sense of time, place, where we are now versus what things were like then.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>Elena: Did you always know you wanted to write a book?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Never. No way. I loved reading, but never could have written a book. It wasn&#8217;t until I was about 45 and started. I had a story idea that I couldn&#8217;t shake and I wanted to read the book. And so I thought, I&#8217;ll just try writing, but I won&#8217;t tell a soul. No one will know. And that did eventually morph into my first book and I&#8217;m glad I waited. because when I was younger, I had nothing to say on the page. I hadn&#8217;t really lived life enough.</p>
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<p class="Script"><em>November, 2025</em></p>
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		<title>Maggie; Or, a Man and a Woman Walk into a Bar- This Slender Novel Resonated Big-time</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Whenever I choose a book for the podcast, I’m looking for beautiful writing, a compelling story and themes that resonate with me. My latest pick, Maggie; Or, a Man and a Woman Walk into a Bar by debut author Katie Yee ticked all those boxes. It’s a slim novel of 199 pages, a comic tragedy...</p>
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<p class="Script">Whenever I choose a book for the podcast, I’m looking for beautiful writing, a compelling story and themes that resonate with me. My latest pick, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/s?k=maggie+or+a+man+and+a+women+walk+into+a+bar&amp;crid=IRFWPRMNZQAC&amp;sprefix=maggie+or+a+man%2Caps%2C306&amp;ref=nb_sb_ss_p13n-expert-pd-ops-ranker_5_15" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Maggie; Or, a Man and a Woman Walk into a Bar</a> by debut author Katie Yee ticked all those boxes.</p>
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<p class="Script">It’s a slim novel of 199 pages, a comic tragedy that reminded me a little of Nora Ephron’s <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Heartburn-Nora-Ephron-audiobook/dp/B00A30B4IO/ref=sr_1_1?crid=25WUAZOASUAOC&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.PPGq4GpRjFpMDbFzl0yJLWa1dUsCSEw4EqpPzWERAqj6CVK3_2tlTFl_PbAQbTK60SVdDqYNUw1UAxuMFtk65xA0WmBICszOK7c9BKaTKTBFq_xARl7KymiLLv2fx-EvqdPlpUsitGTn9V3J_CMzjHkGIiao9bFm9ItfKTvFobmOd8H6zD3mEtrqhQG7Ew03Hpf411snkaAkms3R5nOplbkpcuV4AZ6kJhC28L720GE.xeb8R8b9kRP8eJo0SQYiPrrUa0sDtapbkUXl6J9Wnec&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=heartburn+ephron&amp;qid=1762543620&amp;sprefix=heartburn+ephron%2Caps%2C154&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Heartburn</a>.  Both stories involve a cheating husband, a heartbroken wife, but the protagonists are very different. Nora&#8217;s protagonist is angry and funny and finds consolation in food and recipes. Katie&#8217;s protagonist is watchful, less angry, funny, and finds consolation in stories. The book title <em>Maggie; Or, a Man and a Woman Walk into a Bar</em> makes you think of an old joke. Only when the protagonist walks into a bar, or in this case an all-you-can-eat Indian buffet restaurant with her husband, he tells her he&#8217;s having an affair with a white woman named Maggie. Soon after the protagonist discovers she has breast cancer and names the tumor Maggie.</p>
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<p class="Script">Now divorce, cancer, not such cheery topics, but in Katie&#8217;s hands, I kept laughing, not loud, raucous laughter, but more chuckling about the narrator&#8217;s relatable observations. She hates the tiny triangular paper cups in the doctor&#8217;s waiting room that never hold enough water and the outdated cheesy magazines. She never sees issues of the Atlantic or the New Yorker. Maybe, she muses, because people who read those magazines are too smart to get cancer. She writes ‘The Guide to My Husband: A User’s Manual” and ponders whether she should give it to Maggie, the mistress, not the tumor.</p>
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<p class="Script">When I asked Katie what she hoped readers would take away from her novel, she said:</p>
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<p class="Script">I hope readers feel like they can revisit and retell their own story. They don&#8217;t have to hold onto stories that are not serving them. They can take the pen back.</p>
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<p class="Script">Katie talks about how we each have our origin stories, including, in the novel’s case, how the narrator met her husband. But when he left her, she realized that story didn’t work for her anymore. I experienced that same thing when my husband and I divorced. I remember thinking what do I do with all those stories, the photo albums, the letters (we met way before email), the shared memories. It was a big chunk of my brain and heart. I had to find a different origin story with a new ending.</p>
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<p class="Script">Katie said it doesn’t need to be a long marriage; any relationship can work its way into our origin story.</p>
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<p class="Script">Who among us, she said, has not dated someone for a little bit too long just because the meet cute story was so good. I dated this guy right out of college. We met on the subway, and he asked me what I was reading, and I was like, this is it. A meet cute to end all meet cutes. And, you know, he wasn&#8217;t amazing. But I was like, I think we just have to hang on because the universe would never have given me a story so good if it wasn&#8217;t supposed to work out.</p>
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<p class="Script">Another element to Katie’s novel that I loved was how the protagonist mothered her young children. She doesn&#8217;t  pressure them to be a certain way, to get top grades. Unlike her ex, she doesn’t correct mistakes on their homework. Instead, the mother can’t wait to see what individuals her children will turn out to be. I asked Katie if this was how she grew up.</p>
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<p class="Script">Absolutely. While I&#8217;m not myself a mother, so much of the motherhood aspect of the book, I&#8217;ve really pulled from my relationship to my own mother. I completely credit my mother and her curiosity about me and her love of storytelling. I was never sent to bed without a bedtime story. My mom was a classics major as an undergraduate, so she would tell me kid-friendly versions of all the Greek myths, and some Chinese myths that she knew.</p>
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<p class="Script">She would also do this cool thing, a parenting hack, where she would tell me a story and then she would say, okay, now it&#8217;s your turn. And this is kind of a nice way if you&#8217;re tired of entertaining your kids, you let them entertain you.</p>
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<p class="Script">I remember she&#8217;d pick me up after preschool, take me to a diner where we’d get French fries and a vanilla milkshake and we would just tell each other stories. I wanted the narrator in the book to look at her children with that same curiosity and love.</p>
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<p class="Script">And the other main way Katie’s novel resonated with me, was through the narrator’s best friend Darlene. Everyone should have a Darlene in their lives, the friend who knows exactly what we need before we do, who knows what to stay at tense moments, who gets us and is there for us when the going gets tough.  When the narrator asks Darlene how she thinks Maggie, the mistress, is in bed,</p>
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<p class="Script"> Darlene replies terrible. She looks like a real pillow princess. … She lies there like a dead fish! Doesn’t move her hips.  She fakes orgasms, but in the ways guys like.</p>
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<p class="Script">Katie told me Darlene was an important character for me to write into this book because there are so many “divorce novels” out there. But I&#8217;m always like, where is her best friend? For me personally, I&#8217;ve never had to go through anything difficult in my life without the help or the shoulder or the ear of a very best friend. I&#8217;m lucky in that I&#8217;ve got a couple of Darlene&#8217;s in my life.</p>
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<p class="Script">And I have a couple of Darlene’s in my life, who always make the bad times a little less bad. You know who you are.</p>
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<p class="Script">The above has been edited for clarity and brevity. You can listen to the full episode<a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com/p/exploring-comic-tragedies-with-debut" target="_blank" rel="noopener"> here</a> on my podcast <a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Elena Meets the Author</a>, or wherever you choose to listen to podcasts.</p>
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<p><em>November 2025</em></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Elena: Today I&#8217;m speaking to Annabel Monaghan about her lates novel, It&#8217;s a Love Story, which hits newsstands May 27th. I love Annabel&#8217;s smart, funny romcoms. This one had me teary eyed on my second read. I mean, I already knew exactly what was going to happen. I don’t know how she does it-  her...</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> Today I&#8217;m speaking to Annabel Monaghan about her lates novel, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Its-Love-Story-Annabel-Monaghan/dp/0593714105/ref=sr_1_3?crid=372M55YNRY8LM&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.ywMwtAtZLSvmhz7Y0DEJKlWCv56CBpwQmB8952XlMib5hNo_Rw_7Z7MPyqoO9rVDHlnMPIz5pbZUzHLfeNTGC7hOoolINWs3nD8LOCFlEGLsVCSwrGaAJDTnYz_pb-eY4rZxI8HMEQNjldmIvYhWkxKxAYD2jkBBjZg7z7OlIeXctCrcVJT6zWR5Q9us-G2MFPyB-gCW5vup2EqpkoAeZ42pSTxGIJKrpqw0JYSXqSM.SIlsB6A_wnK4zPHbO5SeLWjwty1N1b-Hz8iLGhNYCEA&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=annabel+monaghan+books&amp;qid=1748027023&amp;sprefix=annabel+monaghan+%2Caps%2C114&amp;sr=8-3" target="_blank" rel="noopener">It&#8217;s a Love Story</a>, which hits newsstands May 27th. I love Annabel&#8217;s smart, funny romcoms. This one had me teary eyed on my second read. I mean, I already knew exactly what was going to happen.</p>
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<p class="Script">I don’t know how she does it-  her timing, wit, knack for creating lovable, flawed characters and slowly building sexy romance is just perfect. This particular story centers around a somewhat unhinged Jane Jackson, who was a child TV star and now 20 years later or so, is still in Hollywood and trying to get a movie produced.</p>
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<p class="Script">Jane is not having much luck and whenever Jane gets nervous, she hides in her closet or her under her desk at work and eats candy. Enter Dan Finnegan, an arrogant cinematographer who almost immediately becomes Jane&#8217;s nemesis when he trashes her latest film idea to her boss, Nathan. I should add that Dan is somewhat handsome, a cross between a fireman and a swimsuit model.</p>
<p class="Script">I first interviewed Annabel about <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Nora-Goes-Script-Annabel-Monaghan/dp/0593420055/ref=sr_1_6?crid=372M55YNRY8LM&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.ywMwtAtZLSvmhz7Y0DEJKlWCv56CBpwQmB8952XlMib5hNo_Rw_7Z7MPyqoO9rVDHlnMPIz5pbZUzHLfeNTGC7hOoolINWs3nD8LOCFlEGLsVCSwrGaAJDTnYz_pb-eY4rZxI8HMEQNjldmIvYhWkxKxAYD2jkBBjZg7z7OlIeXctCrcVJT6zWR5Q9us-G2MFPyB-gCW5vup2EqpkoAeZ42pSTxGIJKrpqw0JYSXqSM.SIlsB6A_wnK4zPHbO5SeLWjwty1N1b-Hz8iLGhNYCEA&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=annabel+monaghan+books&amp;qid=1748027023&amp;sprefix=annabel+monaghan+%2Caps%2C114&amp;sr=8-6" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Nora Goes Off Script</a> a few years ago and have not stopped devouring her comedic love stories ever since. I feel about Annabel&#8217;s writing a bit the way I feel about my pug Josephine, who I remind daily that she&#8217;s not allowed to die ever, and Annabel is not allowed to stop writing ever.</p>
<p>Below are edited highlights from our Q&amp;A. You can listen to the full episode <a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com/p/unveiling-the-magic-annabel-monaghan" target="_blank" rel="noopener">here</a> on <a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Elena Meets the Author</a>. Annabel, welcome to the show.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Annabel:</b> Oh my goodness. That is honestly the best thing I&#8217;ve ever heard. I don&#8217;t think anyone&#8217;s ever likened me to their dog before and I have a dog. I know what a compliment that is.  Thank you for having me back.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>My pleasure. Is there anything else you&#8217;d like to add about your book without giving the whole plot away?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">Well, they&#8217;re going to do a little bit of traveling. The story itself is really about coming to terms with all the stories you&#8217;ve told yourself your entire life growing up, all the beliefs that we hold really tightly about ourselves and taking a second to let some of them go so that we can move on with our lives.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>So your inspiration for this book, I saw in your acknowledgements that you mentioned a book called <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Im-Glad-My-Mom-Died/dp/1982185821/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3C3FYLF0EH4K2&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.8aUIO9WK1xwoLVAHks816bJH3B__rTvFqlRwpaBYTj9bJjWGpgaVs_QeGcMmklettf9jcGpAhr6MlCGgGsv4-elh5zXiZcRw5py8_7jI55eTRpG0yeEwep1yQJzippUrgwKcIfpFLGpm9EzMhlTElAJ_HiDCyN9Yh2hIArlcvB0QIwDHn6riFvdlh-0ev5VZC-30xm20lgTX6Pj9vwohgw0GbcM1Y-Es-NoyO9A6VIA.ZP7c_-DBuxJtJLUmq-r4zhNjHJwnANytbOjg92sG8bE&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=I%27m+Glad+my+mom+died&amp;qid=1747948954&amp;sprefix=i%27m+glad+my+mom+died%2Caps%2C221&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">I&#8217;m Glad My Mom Died</a>. Can you tell us about that?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> It is such a hard title to say, isn&#8217;t it? Every time I say it, I almost wish I never brought it up.  I picked that book up two years ago, and I read it straight through and when I finished, I turned back to the first page, and I read it again. I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve ever done that in my life.</p>
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<p class="Script">It’s by Jennette McCurdy. She was a teen star. I was so taken by the writing. I don&#8217;t know that I&#8217;ve ever read writing quite that crisp and unusual. I also really got into the mind of teen stars and all of these teens like Jennette that I watched growing up.</p>
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<p class="Script">So, while I was watching them, they were going through puberty on tv. And when I think about that time in my life, it was all about trying things on, maybe I&#8217;m going to dress like Madonna now, or maybe I&#8217;m going try to have this personality. What was it like to grow up on TV where you&#8217;re actually being dressed and given a script every day?</p>
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<p class="Script">Is there part of your life where you missed your personal development as a person because you were always told where to stand. So that&#8217;s where Jane Jackson came from. She is the most unhinged character I&#8217;ve ever written. She is an adult. She&#8217;s trying to make it in the movie business. She is so unself-aware, has no clue really of who she is. So that was my starting point. I just wanted to see what she would be like all grown up.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Was it easy to write the whole unhinged part?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Oddly, I&#8217;m embarrassed to say it was so much easier for me than trying to write somebody who has their act together. I mean, just the thrill of having her rip open candy bars on the floor of her closet and shove them in her mouth, the actual release that I felt. She’s a person who always knows what she&#8217;s going to say in advance, but then if she gets really mad, she just lets loose and says something totally different.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>The film <i>The Notebook</i> comes up an awful lot. Jane professes to hate that film, but I don&#8217;t believe her. Does she really hate <i>The Notebook</i>?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> No, she does not. But as it’s revealed throughout the book, it&#8217;s a touch point for the moment in her life when she stopped believing in love. I happen to be a <i>Notebook</i> lover because I&#8217;m a normal human being. Everybody loves that movie. But there are a lot of holes that you can poke, and it was really fun to play the devil&#8217;s advocate and find those holes.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Each of your novels comes out just before the summer and they make me yearn for summer, like no other book. Where is this fictional seaside place based on, because it&#8217;s not quite the Hamptons.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> No, it is a made-up Long Island town called Oak Shore, same town as in my book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Same-Time-Summer-Annabel-Monaghan/dp/059354496X/ref=sr_1_5?crid=372M55YNRY8LM&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.ywMwtAtZLSvmhz7Y0DEJKlWCv56CBpwQmB8952XlMib5hNo_Rw_7Z7MPyqoO9rVDHlnMPIz5pbZUzHLfeNTGC7hOoolINWs3nD8LOCFlEGLsVCSwrGaAJDTnYz_pb-eY4rZxI8HMEQNjldmIvYhWkxKxAYD2jkBBjZg7z7OlIeXctCrcVJT6zWR5Q9us-G2MFPyB-gCW5vup2EqpkoAeZ42pSTxGIJKrpqw0JYSXqSM.SIlsB6A_wnK4zPHbO5SeLWjwty1N1b-Hz8iLGhNYCEA&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=annabel+monaghan+books&amp;qid=1748027023&amp;sprefix=annabel+monaghan+%2Caps%2C114&amp;sr=8-5" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Same Time Next Summer</a>. It is so fictional that ordinary people have homes on the beach. I like a good fantasy.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> You make it so people want to go there, like me, now.</p>
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<p class="Script"> I don&#8217;t know how to get you to Oak Shore. Don&#8217;t bring your realtor to Oak Shore looking for waterfront property.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>And so is it pretty much the deal with your publisher, where they say, every May, we&#8217;d like a book</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Yes. I&#8217;m in contract to write a book for summer 2026 and summer 2027. Don&#8217;t tell them, but I would do this for free and until I die. I honestly don&#8217;t know what else I&#8217;d be doing. It&#8217;s really what I love to do. And then the culmination of it, in a few weeks I&#8217;m going on book tour and that&#8217;s super fun. And then I&#8217;ll start another book.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Do you not panic a teeny bit with these deadlines? Or do you have enough ideas percolating that you&#8217;re okay?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> I don’t panic. When I was finishing this book,  I was having ideas about the book that I&#8217;m writing now, the next book. I&#8217;m not a good multitasker. Having children was really challenging for me. Like, why are we doing so many different things? So, I was terrified by how much I was thinking about that next book while I was finishing this book. So, I have to shut the door on any ideas. I don&#8217;t even write them down in a notebook. I&#8217;m like, it is not time. I&#8217;m not entertaining this idea yet. And then I start when I&#8217;m done.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>I have to say I got uncomfortable because things were going quite smoothly and I was getting far along in the book and I knew there had to be a looming crisis. I just knew it. And then the crisis came, and I had to speed read past it. It was so uncomfortable. I wanted to get back to the love part.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Oh, I love that it made you uncomfortable.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Very.. and Jack Quinlan is such a bad person. You need to do a sequel where something bad happens to him.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Yes, he gets lice. Is there something worse than that? That was the first thing I could think of.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>That&#8217;s really bad. Dan, the quiet, thoughtful cinematographer who is not exactly what Jane thought he was. Did he come to you quite naturally?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> I just started writing Dan.  I was probably two drafts in before I understood who he was. One thing I&#8217;ll tell you is that I am married to a quiet man. I really like a quiet man.  Leo Vance from <em>Nora Goes Off Script</em> may be the sexiest man alive. But he’s not my type. I adored him while I was writing him, but that&#8217;s not for me. I loved writing a man who just knows who he is and doesn&#8217;t have to justify it to everybody.  I find that very, very attractive. So, you know, maybe my own household sort of snuck in there on this one.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Nice,  I like a quiet man too. Your love scenes, do you read them aloud? What&#8217;s your secret to writing them so convincingly without being in any way pornographic or corny?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> It’s getting easier just because I&#8217;ve been doing it more. I draft those scenes over and over again, and then I put them away and then reread them. Sometimes somebody&#8217;s got three arms. I have to imagine them.</p>
<p class="Script">There are two approaches to writing a love scene. One has body parts in it, and one doesn&#8217;t have body parts in it, like we&#8217;re not naming body parts. So, my approach is we&#8217;re together and you can see how they are together and how it&#8217;s going, but you&#8217;re not saying all the things.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>It&#8217;s very suggestive. You barely mentioned a breast. I think that was it.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> I&#8217;ve gone wild. I&#8217;ve gone totally off the rails. But you know, the truth about all that kind of stuff is the moments before the kiss are more exciting than the kiss. It&#8217;s the anticipation of the thing, the buildup that feels really great. So that&#8217;s fun to write.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>What was the most difficult part to write?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">The thing with her mother, it&#8217;s really complicated. Jane has a very close relationship with her mother. They do and say everything to make each other happy. But they don&#8217;t always say the honest thing. Towards the end of the book, there is more honesty and something kind of blows up. And it was important to me to get that right. And that was very difficult.  I wrote that a lot of times and in a lot of different ways. Opening up the hard conversation and how that would actually look.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Right. And it was very interesting too that the mother had such a different attitude towards love than her daughter, than Jane. She was willing to get hurt.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Her mother would jump off any cliff, like, <i>oh, this is going to be great</i>. <i>He&#8217;s the one, let&#8217;s go</i>. But you know, as often happens, if you have a parent who maybe spends money to their own peril, you become very frugal. We are often a reaction to our parents and Jane saw her mother get her heart broken and put her back together enough times to know that love is not safe.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>I thought this could make a great film. You&#8217;ve got that magical setting, those handsome Finnegans, the steamy scenes, Jane in her Eleanor Roosevelt bathing suit. Do you ever try to make your books into films?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">I have book to film agents in Los Angeles, this very cool duo of young women, and they are sending this out.  Nora Goes Off Script has been optioned, and that&#8217;s something that&#8217;s going to happen in the next year if it happens. I&#8217;ll give you news as it comes.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b><strong> Okay good because I can help with the casting. So, tell us about what you&#8217;re working on now.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Okay, so I am on the second draft of this. I&#8217;m not going to write 13 drafts on this book. This one&#8217;s going to come together, in case my editor&#8217;s listening to this, I swear to God, this is not going to break your heart. So, this is about a woman. She&#8217;s a single mother, she&#8217;s 39, about to turn 40, and she is a part-time kindergarten teacher. She also works for her dad at this fish store that he owns, and she strikes up a fake dating relationship with a man, who is kind of like a Vanderbilt. The whole thing&#8217;s a little bit like Pretty Woman, but there are no hookers.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Ah, she&#8217;s a kindergarten teacher.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Yes. So, she&#8217;s not hired to have sex with him, but he needs a date for a PR reason.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>I take it he&#8217;s somewhat handsome.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> He&#8217;s so handsome. Here&#8217;s what&#8217;s wrong with the world, and I will say this, it&#8217;s much harder to sell a guy to a reader like Dan Finnegan, who probably doesn&#8217;t have health insurance and is maybe like killing himself in his own apartment with the chemicals from his photography, than it is to sell a Vanderbilt.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>So, your work is easier with this man?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">Never going to be easier, but maybe.  I really like him though. He&#8217;s a little troubled.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Oh, good.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Yeah.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Okay, good. Well, I&#8217;m looking forward to talking to you about that one next year. Thank you so much for coming on the show.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Thank you!</p>
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<p><em>May, 2025</em></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I spoke with prolific New York-based writer Elinor Lipman about her latest novel Every Tom, Dick &#38; Harry, a lighthearted, funny story about a 32-year-old woman named Emma Lewis, who, stalled in her career, reluctantly takes over her parents struggling estate sale business. No sooner do Emma&#8217;s parents leave town to enjoy their retirement, than...</p>
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<p class="Script">I spoke with prolific New York-based writer Elinor Lipman about her latest novel <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Every-Tom-Dick-Harry-Novel/dp/0063322250/ref=sr_1_1?crid=19NMJAWSOGCG5&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.ZuMzrCorjia3hhZeYkNho3_J5kmJJo9EldOC8dmJan_6qdxBD2YS1EF_GF3Or8pwFhFw2KXjQED2mzDgi1mIBs1bT65e-4SBjlJqaDPmXJIknxeFkv2NGcBnmXtieY7otVa8Ne1UtAoyX3EO-FKRLg.S2nJ2Q9_YYl8-SY3fl6cx5UTXLUY-1Qc_aoSUltvjTs&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=every+tom+dick+and+harry&amp;qid=1741709440&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=every+tom+dick+and+harry%2Cstripbooks%2C73&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Every Tom, Dick &amp; Harry</a>, a lighthearted, funny story about a 32-year-old woman named Emma Lewis, who, stalled in her career, reluctantly takes over her parents struggling estate sale business.</p>
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<p class="Script">No sooner do Emma&#8217;s parents leave town to enjoy their retirement, than she lands the company&#8217;s biggest get, an impressive mansion on the exclusive Quail Ridge Road. Only, this mansion has a less than exclusive past. A bed and breakfast for male guests that was more bed than breakfast. Another promising fancy house Emma takes on has a similarly checkered past.</p>
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<p class="Script">Should Emma let prudish principals get in the way of making money? Falling for the town&#8217;s chief of police only complicates matters. Expect an active plotline, some unusual and timely deaths, lots of romance, and some good luck for those who had given up on it. Below is an edited version of our chat. You can listen to the entire conversation <a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com/p/eleanor-lipman-on-every-tom-dick" target="_blank" rel="noopener">here</a> on <a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Elena Meets the Author</a>, or wherever you listen to podcasts.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>Elena: Elinor, you&#8217;ve written 17 books. Where do you get your delightful madcap ideas from? And specifically, where did you get the idea for <i>Every Tom, Dick and Harry</i>?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> I don&#8217;t get a full-blown idea ever. I don&#8217;t get a plot. If I&#8217;m lucky, I get an opening line. And then I follow the advice of an old writing teacher of mine: prepare to write badly. I just think of a sentence that&#8217;ll lead to the next thing, maybe it&#8217;ll inspire me, a character pops in. It’s sort of a seat of the pants approach, but it&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve done.</p>
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<p class="Script">And as far as <i>Every Tom, Dick and Harry</i> with Emma taking the reins of her parent’s estate sale business, I go to estate sales a lot. I got a few things that made me feel like I had a bit of a link with the owner. I got a plate; I got some serving bowls. Every time I use them, I think of the owner. Usually, I write something and then throw it away. Not the whole thing, maybe the first chapter. I&#8217;ve thrown away as much as 125 pages.</p>
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<p class="Script">I&#8217;m constantly polishing, until I feel I can move on. So, this is not a guidebook to anyone thinking, how do I get an idea for a novel? But it&#8217;s more just sit down and don&#8217;t be put off by the fact that you feel uninspired. You may have the glimmer of an idea or an opening line. Start with an opening line.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>I saw in your acknowledgements that you thank your police chief friend, someone that you&#8217;ve known since fourth grade.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Jimmy Mulligan, bless his heart. Yes.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong> I was just wondering whether he gave you some good narrative advice on being a cop. And if so, can you tell us any of his tips.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> He was a police officer, a chief and a superintendent and he went to the FBI academy and all this other stuff so sometimes I&#8217;ll send him an email and say something like, the cop is at the end of the street, and he&#8217;s not letting people go through because there&#8217;s been a possible tragedy. When&#8217;s he going to let the people through? When&#8217;s anyone going to being able to get to the house? He gives me specific advice. So, whenever there&#8217;s a policeman and Luke (the policeman in the book..) is in the scene, Jimmy Mulligan has approved the dialogue.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>Did you stay in touch with him since the fourth grade?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">I think it was my 20th high school reunion; I saw Jimmy at the event.We talked and he gave me his card and said, if you ever have a question about a cop, call me. Well, I certainly did. Cops show up in all my novels.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>In your acknowledgements, you also thank, Facebook friends and a neighbor for their contributions.  It seems that you don&#8217;t have to look that far for story ideas or information helpful to your novel. You just have to be open.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> I think that&#8217;s very true. I remember once being at a reading with Anita Shreve, who was a really close friend of mine, and I just miss her terribly. Someone was asking about research. Her books take place, here, there, and everywhere.</p>
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<p class="Script">And I remember Anita saying that she does research on a need-to-know basis. I do too. I don&#8217;t get in my car and go to 20 estate sales and take notes. It’s more what I gleam looking back at things I&#8217;ve noticed.</p>
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<p class="Script">And you know the other thing that was hugely helpful in this novel besides Jimmy Mulligan is Jonathan, my English beau. He is an appraiser for an auction house. He&#8217;s the one that leads me to these estate sales. He was very helpful in terms of what would be on the wall at this fancy B&amp; B/brothel. The ending has a lot to do with art too.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong> And I remember the auction business featured in your last hilarious book, Miss Demeanor. Thank you, Jonathan. Hah</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">Oh yeah, big time. We joke about how  much I&#8217;ve monetized him because I&#8217;ve written about him in Modern Love (<a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2015/10/04/fashion/taking-a-break-for-friendship.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Taking a Break for Friendship</a>) , and I&#8217;m working on another piece right now for the <em>Free Press</em> that Jonathan enters into because it&#8217;s about widowhood.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>Didn&#8217;t you also have a collection of essays?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Yes</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>What&#8217;s it called?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> It&#8217;s called, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/I-Cant-Complain-Elinor-Lipman/dp/0544227905" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>I Can&#8217;t Complain</em></a>.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>And one of the essays was about him before you started going out&#8230;</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> It was when we were seeing each other as friends, his choice, not mine. I called what we had going on a <i>nomance</i>, because it was. We were seeing each other for about six months. My collection came out, with the essay called <em>A Fine Nomance</em> about meeting him, and how nothing happened, and I pretended in that essay that that was about right for me.</p>
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<p class="Script">You know, like I was a widow, and that all I needed was this friendship. And he read that essay. We were seeing each other still in a platonic fashion. But I was picking up a few new vibes. He said he wanted to talk to me. And he came over. I had wine and smoked salmon ready.</p>
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<p class="Script">But it happened to be a distracting day. It was the same day that this really wonderful review appeared in the New York Times of both books that were brought out simultaneously. <em>The View from Pantos B</em> and the essay collection. So, he comes over at six, and I was getting phone calls. And I talked to my son, and I was getting emails. Finally, he told me that what he wanted to tell me was that he didn&#8217;t want to be just friends anymore.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>He was taking his time. Maybe he was just being British?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Oh, for sure. And that was 12 years ago.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>I&#8217;m so glad it worked and I&#8217;m so glad he&#8217;s a font of material for you.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> A font of material is right, and he&#8217;s such a good sport.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>Back to your book, I notice in both <i>Miss Demeanor</i> and <i>in Every Tom, Dick and Harry</i>, your novels take place in small settings. Do you prefer limiting your settings to one place where everybody knows each other, or they&#8217;re somehow connected?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Yes, I would say so. I was recently asked, what are your goals for the next book? And I began by saying, I&#8217;m always trying to get my characters outside. I have a t-shirt that says Indoorsy. I have to push myself</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>That&#8217;s funny because in <i>Miss Demeanor</i> they’re under house arrest.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> That&#8217;s the ultimate. I have to push myself to not have every conversation taking place at the table. Dialogue is the easiest thing for me. So where does the dialogue take place? I don&#8217;t have them on adjoining treadmills at the gym. I have them sitting down, eating.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>Maybe personally that’s where you&#8217;re happiest?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Yes, I also like the cooking part of it.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>You probably get this question all the time, but what advice would you give aspiring comedic writers?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">I don&#8217;t like books that are allegedly funny, and I can see that the author&#8217;s straining to tell jokes and be funny. When I do a reading, I discover what people find funny, what they&#8217;re laughing at.</p>
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<p class="Script">So, people laugh at a sentence, a word sometimes. And I think, well I didn&#8217;t know that was funny. But of course, at the next reading or event, if people don&#8217;t laugh at that same line, I&#8217;m disappointed. I would say, if I find myself reaching to say something funny for a line, I cut that line out.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>So, maybe you&#8217;re either a funny person or you&#8217;re not. And if it&#8217;s forced, it will come off as forced.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">When I watch a standup comedian, I like the ones that are just talking about their life and their observations. They are just observations, but they&#8217;re funny to other people, and it&#8217;s their rye way of viewing things.</p>
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<p class="Script">I don&#8217;t like comics who laugh at their own jokes. I like a straight face where they describe something that they experienced, something that they viewed, and it&#8217;s funny.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong> I have a question about your schedule. Do you pretty much, regardless of whether you have an idea or not, do you say, I&#8217;m going to sit down at my computer, at such and such a time, five days a week or more?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">  I like to write in the morning. And that of course had to do with when my son was in nursery school, and then school, and my husband went off to work at 6:30 in the morning. He was a doctor. That was very convenient, out the door at 6:30.  I aim for 500 words a day, five days a week.</p>
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<p class="Script">But if the 500 words come quickly because it&#8217;s a lot of dialogue, I say, okay, it&#8217;s only nine in the morning, or nine thirty, or ten. You&#8217;ve got a whole day ahead, and that&#8217;s disgraceful, and why don&#8217;t you keep going. So then, 750 sounds good, and then I think, well, as long as I&#8217;m at 750 words, do 1,000.</p>
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<p class="Script">I definitely push myself. I don&#8217;t know what&#8217;s next, but I&#8217;m just going to give it a try and write something. And then maybe I throw that away, but it leads to an idea.  I&#8217;m quite religious about that.</p>
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<p class="Script">And if we’re out driving &#8211; not me driving, Jonathan- and I get an idea for the book, then I&#8217;ll take out a pen and the notebook that&#8217;s sitting there near the gear shift and write it down. I got the idea for <i>Good Riddance</i> sitting in the passenger seat of the car. I pay attention to those little glimmers. Jonathan’s used to it. It might be just the tiniest thing that one of the characters I&#8217;m working on is doing tomorrow.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>My last question is what books are you excited to read?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> I&#8217;m reading a book right now by British author Marianne Cronin. She’s really a smart writer. It’s called <i>Eddie Winston is Looking for Love. </i>Eddie Winston, who&#8217;s 94, has never been kissed. He works in a charity shop, so it&#8217;s full of second-hand stuff.</p>
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<p class="Script">I&#8217;m also reading <i>Emma</i> because Simon &amp; Schuster is doing an anthology where each story is going to be about a minor character in any Jane Austen novel. And I&#8217;ve chosen Miss Bates from <i>Emma</i>. So, I&#8217;m rereading Emma and watching every movie and TV program about <i>Emma</i>. My story is due March 1st.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong> You are busy. It&#8217;s impressive. Well, that&#8217;s all my questions. It was really lovely talking to you.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Same here.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>Thank you and good luck</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"><em>March, 2025</em></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>The book for this week’s episode took me to places I don’t normally go, namely the world of OnlyFans and pro-wrestling. I live in a bubble and reading fiction helps me break out of that bubble, even if it’s only in my mind. The protagonist in author Rufi Thorpe’s Margo’s Got Money Troubles is the...</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="font-weight: 400;">The book for this week’s episode took me to places I don’t normally go, namely the world of OnlyFans and pro-wrestling. I live in a bubble and reading fiction helps me break out of that bubble, even if it’s only in my mind. The protagonist in author Rufi Thorpe’s <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Margos-Got-Money-Troubles-Novel-ebook/dp/B0CHW6PQ4Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2VLNX2M1WYJZ3&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X-0npq7Y4e1Q0j7IMOshddwhOtk2wZnD-XVhMMzPRF3aOm9mrME94mHYnfqCUCGwi3ZvIR7p8XCh5emygh92zc8AaoJDqRmzlxykP-T11gBwjCgjSlC4Mn6Iy3i8wgDGCGukl2mI3eG2yMzFiAFvOEHmrvrp-AAxt1NrzC8qxlOhqrq8ZKPnQHGe7bQCw1VhfsfAzR3okq8Pxyu1kr6Om5ISxZudXpBxcaO0qCz6f7Y.DX_FBMGybCb06w-z_hehp6-tCzZFfvBC_uFPvDuBsWU&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=margo%27s+got+money+troubles+by+rufi+thorpe&amp;qid=1732486588&amp;sprefix=margo%2Caps%2C85&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Margo’s Got Money Troubles</a> is the daughter of a Hooters waitress and an ex pro wrestler. Margo gets impregnated by her English professor at junior college, and despite everyone’s advice, including the father, Margo decides to keep the baby. She soon realizes having a baby is both the hardest job she&#8217;ll ever do and the best job. When her estranged father Jinx shows up, she says he can move in, but only if he helps with the babysitting. Margo starts an OnlyFans site as an experiment and finds herself adapting some of Jinx’s tips from the world of wrestling.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">Now, if you’re thinking this book is too far out for you, think again. Uber-talented TV producer David E. Kelley loved Rufi’s novel and is turning it into an 8-part Apple TV series starring Elle Fanning as Margo, Michelle Feiffer as Margo’s mom, Nick Otterman as Jinx, Thaddea Graham as Margo’s flat-mate Suzie and Nicole Kidman in an undisclosed role. The dream team. p.s. Elle Fanning narrates the Audible.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">Below is an edited, abbreviated Q&amp;A with Rufi. You can listen to our entire chat <a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com/podcast" target="_blank" rel="noopener">here</a> on Elena Meets the Author, or wherever you listen to your podcasts.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rufi, hello. You write about so many serious, often dark issues like unemployment, desperation, infidelity, sex work, shame, pro wrestling, opiate addiction, religious zealotry, white trash, the impossible choices young mothers face. </strong><strong>Can you tell us how humor makes difficult topics not just palatable, but even enjoyable? </strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;">Comedy is a great way of leavening a work so that you can talk about these dark issues without it becoming too much of a bummer or making you want to set the book down.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">But I also think that the times I&#8217;ve laughed the hardest in my life have usually been in a hospital or a mortuary, like, there&#8217;s nothing like the truly terrible moments in life to give you the giggles. I think that either life strikes you as funny or not. In this story, I don&#8217;t know that I was even thinking that it was going to be so dark.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>What inspired this story?</strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;">It started off with this really, simple thought experiment. I was seeing the movie <em>Wonder Woman</em> with my mom at the movie theatre. We really liked it, but we both agreed we were much more interested in the island of the Amazons than we were in Wonder Woman herself. We didn&#8217;t like Wonder Woman.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">She was cold and virginal. Why can&#8217;t there ever be a female superhero who fucks? And who&#8217;s comfortable with sex. Even Black Widow, she&#8217;s sexual, but she&#8217;s so tortured by it. Why can&#8217;t there be a female superhero who is comfortable with her sexuality?</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">And then I got this weird idea of taking the two ways that our culture&#8217;s messed up about women, the Madonna-whore complex, and what if I made a character who was both a Madonna and a whore? Good at both and there being no conflict.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">How could I write such a character? I thought I&#8217;d never be able to do it. There&#8217;s all this cultural stigma against sex work and there&#8217;s this tendency to put mothers on such a pedestal and judge them so harshly over things like using formula or what sleep training method they use.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I mean, we castigate women for nothing. So, I was like, how would I ever get a reader to sign on to this character? And then during the pandemic, there were some standup comedians that I followed on Twitter, and as their ability to perform standup evaporated overnight, they were scrambling to figure out how to support themselves and they started OnlyFans accounts.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I was watching them live tweet their experience. And I noticed that the conversations around OnlyFans were a little bit different than conversations around other forms of sex work or sex adjacent work. I think partially because women of our generation, most of us have taken nudes for a partner at some point. So, it&#8217;s no longer this idea of you going to a sketchy photographer&#8217;s house and putting yourself in danger to take boudoir photographs. It’s like you take a picture of your boobs on the phone all the time, so that&#8217;s not the scary part. We&#8217;ve all also sold something online, so that&#8217;s not really that intimidating.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">And suddenly, you&#8217;re in charge. You know, there&#8217;s no creepy producer who&#8217;s making you do things you don&#8217;t want to do. You have complete creative control. Then what really is the problem with it?  And I thought, oh, this is the paradigm where people would be more willing to have the conversation without it suddenly getting collapsed into black and white.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>I listened to an interview where you talked about how during COVID, waitresses were unemployed, men were working from home and Only Fans subscriptions shot up</strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"> I think it went from 20 million users to 120 million users in that first year of the quarantine. There’s a large group of people participating in the OnlyFans economy. And it&#8217;s one of the things that weirdly makes me hopeful. I know that there&#8217;s been a lot of questions whether these young women understand the repercussions? Will it be difficult for them to find employment in the future? And I feel like there&#8217;s so many of them (on OnlyFans) at this point that it seems that it&#8217;s going to be absurd to not hire someone for a job because they used to have an OnlyFans account. I hope that that&#8217;s the way the culture is trending.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Margot&#8217;s love interest, JB, asks her, ‘When you fall in love with a book, is it the character or the author you&#8217;re falling in love with?’ What do you think?</strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"> I think for me as a very lonely, chubby child who fell in love with books, communing with those other minds and feeling a ripple of intelligence behind a story offered me a kind of intimacy that really wasn&#8217;t available in other aspects of my life.</p>
<p>Like you never can really know a writer. You feel like you do. You think, &#8216;Oh, I&#8217;ve read every single one of your books.They&#8217;re a huge part of my own mental imaginative landscape, but you still don&#8217;t know that person. You could, in fact, meet a writer you admire and then discover you don&#8217;t like them at all, that they&#8217;re a terrible person or they&#8217;re mean, or whatever.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">There&#8217;s all this distance (when you read a book) that enables something truly intimate to happen, experiencing a story or a whole world or a series of people that are all created by one mind. And I think there&#8217;s something fundamentally communicative in art that is about connection.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena: When people read fiction they’re living in a fantasy world, a bit like Margo’s subscribers. </strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;">I think that we have a really strong drive towards the fantastical. We are naturally drawn to it and also suspicious of the part of ourselves that likes it.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">And so, in some ways, I think this book is a a defence of lying. You know, it&#8217;s not all bad. Don&#8217;t get too worried about lying. Sometimes lying is good.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">Margo is selling a fantasy, and she&#8217;s aware of what her fans think about her. She thinks that they are treating her like a little Tamagotchi, like a little tiny woman that lives in their phone and they can send her dollars and then she&#8217;ll do what they say.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">There is a way in which fiction is wish fulfilment. To keep reading, you have to prefer the book to real life. You watch a Shakespeare play and you&#8217;re escaping. There is a way in which a novel is always a fantasy in the same way that whatever a sex worker is portraying is a fantasy in the same way that even the kinds of physiques that wrestlers are showing you, the kind of strength…I mean, you don&#8217;t do a backflip in the middle of a real fight. But it&#8217;s this fantasy of what if fighting were beautiful.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Can you talk about the research you did for this book?</strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;">Sure, so there were two main arms of the research. One is the wrestling research, and one is the OnlyFans research.  I&#8217;m going to talk about the wrestling first, because I&#8217;m sure people are more interested in the OnlyFans, so then we can end on the exciting OnlyFans research.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">Regarding the wrestling research, I didn&#8217;t even know wrestling was going to be part of this book. I just happened to get obsessed with pro wrestling at the same time (as I was writing the novel). And I remember walking the dogs with my mom and I was telling her how wrestling has this rich literary tradition where almost every wrestler of note has one, if not multiple, published memoirs.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">And she (said), if only there was some way that you could work this into your book so I wouldn&#8217;t have to hear about it quite so much.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">And so, I thought, I don&#8217;t want Margo to become a wrestler, but what about her dad? It would give us a way of understanding people making a living by taking risks with their body. I felt like the parallels to sex work were close enough.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">For wrestling research, I did a ton of reading, a ton of listening to podcasts, a ton of watching summaries of matches in the 90’s.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">And then for OnlyFans I really wanted to get it right. I&#8217;m very spoiled as a fiction writer because most people want to talk about their jobs. But this was not the case with OnlyFans. Everyone was sliding into their DMs. OnlyFans models don&#8217;t have emails posted anywhere. They don&#8217;t have a webpage. They’re trying to not let people have access to them because they&#8217;re scary people out there who want to kill them. And certainly, they&#8217;re getting way too many DMs to personally monitor that on a platform like Instagram or Twitter.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">So, I made an OnlyFans account, and I would send a message with a $50 tip saying I&#8217;m a novelist, I promise, an actual real one. Here&#8217;s my name and names of books I&#8217;ve written. I’m writing a novel that has a character who is doing an OnlyFans account. I really want to portray sex work as work and not have it be exploitative. I really want to get the details right.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I would love to hear about your experience. I&#8217;m willing to pay you this much per question blah blah blah. And even with financial incentives, it was not like people were lining up to talk to me about this. There was a lot of hesitancy. Any question that veered towards the personal, they&#8217;d be like, I don&#8217;t feel comfortable talking about that. Super private, super guarded. And that was kind of an education in and of itself, in terms of understanding just how bombarded they are with people trying to get at them. People trying to get under the facade and pry off their mask and get something from them.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I did ultimately find a couple of models who were willing to answer questions more in depth. I wanted to keep the book focused on that early period of starting an account, because I really wasn&#8217;t sure what happens to you psychologically if you do this work for years.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I think it wears on you in really specific, unique ways, and I did not have somebody who was willing to take me into that level of confidence where I felt like I could understand and do it any justice.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I got lucky and wound up finding an OnlyFans model who had once also worked in publishing and was willing to do a full manuscript read. And that was insanely valuable.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong> I read that you grew up with a single mother, not really knowing your own father. How much did you draw on personal experience for this book?</strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"> My mom has a really different personality than (Margo&#8217;s mother) Cheyenne and a really different life background. My mother was an actress and she has a master&#8217;s degree in theatre, and she has a whole different vibe.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">But there is a dynamic between a single mom and an only child, where you&#8217;re kind of buddies. And you go on little adventures together. Me and my mom did a lot of road trips, and we had a lot of little rituals that our idiosyncratic household made together.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">Like the same way in the book that they did foot peels on Thanksgiving. And now Margo’s thinking about Kenny (Cheyenne&#8217;s boyfriend) joining the family and Margo’s thinking what&#8217;s going to happen to all our weird little just me and mom rituals?</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I think that I didn&#8217;t understand how much my own mother loved me until I had children. I don&#8217;t think you can really conceive of how encompassing a mother&#8217;s love is until you have your own babies and then you&#8217;re like, oh, she would have died for me. Like, it wasn&#8217;t just that she made me sandwiches. She would have beaten a dog to death with a shovel to save me.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">You understand how much labor it takes to raise a child. How many hours of wiping the butts, and the snots, and making the food and how tiring it was and how lonely it probably was for her.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">So, I did a lot of thinking along those lines about my own mother when I had children.  I tried to give Margo a lens, understanding her mom anew through having her own child.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>What prevailing message would you like readers to take away from this book?</strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;m always a little bit suspicious of messages, and I do try to not have one. The one thing I knew I wanted the reader to feel was what I had in mind with movies like <em>Legally Blonde</em>.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I wanted them to feel like she kicked ass at the end. I wanted readers to feel like their life was their own and they got to do with it what they wanted. And that they could be like Margo and build any kind of life that they wanted according to their rules. And they don&#8217;t have to please anybody. I wanted it to have that feeling of violent hopefulness,</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong> Well, mission accomplished. Thank you so much. That’s all my questions.</strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"> Thank you very much, Elena.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><em>November, 2024</em></p>
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