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		<title>Q&#038;A with Bestselling Author Annabel Monaghan, It&#8217;s a Love Story</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Elena: Today I&#8217;m speaking to Annabel Monaghan about her lates novel, It&#8217;s a Love Story, which hits newsstands May 27th. I love Annabel&#8217;s smart, funny romcoms. This one had me teary eyed on my second read. I mean, I already knew exactly what was going to happen. I don’t know how she does it-  her...</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> Today I&#8217;m speaking to Annabel Monaghan about her lates novel, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Its-Love-Story-Annabel-Monaghan/dp/0593714105/ref=sr_1_3?crid=372M55YNRY8LM&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.ywMwtAtZLSvmhz7Y0DEJKlWCv56CBpwQmB8952XlMib5hNo_Rw_7Z7MPyqoO9rVDHlnMPIz5pbZUzHLfeNTGC7hOoolINWs3nD8LOCFlEGLsVCSwrGaAJDTnYz_pb-eY4rZxI8HMEQNjldmIvYhWkxKxAYD2jkBBjZg7z7OlIeXctCrcVJT6zWR5Q9us-G2MFPyB-gCW5vup2EqpkoAeZ42pSTxGIJKrpqw0JYSXqSM.SIlsB6A_wnK4zPHbO5SeLWjwty1N1b-Hz8iLGhNYCEA&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=annabel+monaghan+books&amp;qid=1748027023&amp;sprefix=annabel+monaghan+%2Caps%2C114&amp;sr=8-3" target="_blank" rel="noopener">It&#8217;s a Love Story</a>, which hits newsstands May 27th. I love Annabel&#8217;s smart, funny romcoms. This one had me teary eyed on my second read. I mean, I already knew exactly what was going to happen.</p>
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<p class="Script">I don’t know how she does it-  her timing, wit, knack for creating lovable, flawed characters and slowly building sexy romance is just perfect. This particular story centers around a somewhat unhinged Jane Jackson, who was a child TV star and now 20 years later or so, is still in Hollywood and trying to get a movie produced.</p>
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<p class="Script">Jane is not having much luck and whenever Jane gets nervous, she hides in her closet or her under her desk at work and eats candy. Enter Dan Finnegan, an arrogant cinematographer who almost immediately becomes Jane&#8217;s nemesis when he trashes her latest film idea to her boss, Nathan. I should add that Dan is somewhat handsome, a cross between a fireman and a swimsuit model.</p>
<p class="Script">I first interviewed Annabel about <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Nora-Goes-Script-Annabel-Monaghan/dp/0593420055/ref=sr_1_6?crid=372M55YNRY8LM&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.ywMwtAtZLSvmhz7Y0DEJKlWCv56CBpwQmB8952XlMib5hNo_Rw_7Z7MPyqoO9rVDHlnMPIz5pbZUzHLfeNTGC7hOoolINWs3nD8LOCFlEGLsVCSwrGaAJDTnYz_pb-eY4rZxI8HMEQNjldmIvYhWkxKxAYD2jkBBjZg7z7OlIeXctCrcVJT6zWR5Q9us-G2MFPyB-gCW5vup2EqpkoAeZ42pSTxGIJKrpqw0JYSXqSM.SIlsB6A_wnK4zPHbO5SeLWjwty1N1b-Hz8iLGhNYCEA&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=annabel+monaghan+books&amp;qid=1748027023&amp;sprefix=annabel+monaghan+%2Caps%2C114&amp;sr=8-6" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Nora Goes Off Script</a> a few years ago and have not stopped devouring her comedic love stories ever since. I feel about Annabel&#8217;s writing a bit the way I feel about my pug Josephine, who I remind daily that she&#8217;s not allowed to die ever, and Annabel is not allowed to stop writing ever.</p>
<p>Below are edited highlights from our Q&amp;A. You can listen to the full episode <a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com/p/unveiling-the-magic-annabel-monaghan" target="_blank" rel="noopener">here</a> on <a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Elena Meets the Author</a>. Annabel, welcome to the show.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Annabel:</b> Oh my goodness. That is honestly the best thing I&#8217;ve ever heard. I don&#8217;t think anyone&#8217;s ever likened me to their dog before and I have a dog. I know what a compliment that is.  Thank you for having me back.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>My pleasure. Is there anything else you&#8217;d like to add about your book without giving the whole plot away?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">Well, they&#8217;re going to do a little bit of traveling. The story itself is really about coming to terms with all the stories you&#8217;ve told yourself your entire life growing up, all the beliefs that we hold really tightly about ourselves and taking a second to let some of them go so that we can move on with our lives.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>So your inspiration for this book, I saw in your acknowledgements that you mentioned a book called <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Im-Glad-My-Mom-Died/dp/1982185821/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3C3FYLF0EH4K2&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.8aUIO9WK1xwoLVAHks816bJH3B__rTvFqlRwpaBYTj9bJjWGpgaVs_QeGcMmklettf9jcGpAhr6MlCGgGsv4-elh5zXiZcRw5py8_7jI55eTRpG0yeEwep1yQJzippUrgwKcIfpFLGpm9EzMhlTElAJ_HiDCyN9Yh2hIArlcvB0QIwDHn6riFvdlh-0ev5VZC-30xm20lgTX6Pj9vwohgw0GbcM1Y-Es-NoyO9A6VIA.ZP7c_-DBuxJtJLUmq-r4zhNjHJwnANytbOjg92sG8bE&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=I%27m+Glad+my+mom+died&amp;qid=1747948954&amp;sprefix=i%27m+glad+my+mom+died%2Caps%2C221&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">I&#8217;m Glad My Mom Died</a>. Can you tell us about that?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> It is such a hard title to say, isn&#8217;t it? Every time I say it, I almost wish I never brought it up.  I picked that book up two years ago, and I read it straight through and when I finished, I turned back to the first page, and I read it again. I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve ever done that in my life.</p>
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<p class="Script">It’s by Jennette McCurdy. She was a teen star. I was so taken by the writing. I don&#8217;t know that I&#8217;ve ever read writing quite that crisp and unusual. I also really got into the mind of teen stars and all of these teens like Jennette that I watched growing up.</p>
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<p class="Script">So, while I was watching them, they were going through puberty on tv. And when I think about that time in my life, it was all about trying things on, maybe I&#8217;m going to dress like Madonna now, or maybe I&#8217;m going try to have this personality. What was it like to grow up on TV where you&#8217;re actually being dressed and given a script every day?</p>
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<p class="Script">Is there part of your life where you missed your personal development as a person because you were always told where to stand. So that&#8217;s where Jane Jackson came from. She is the most unhinged character I&#8217;ve ever written. She is an adult. She&#8217;s trying to make it in the movie business. She is so unself-aware, has no clue really of who she is. So that was my starting point. I just wanted to see what she would be like all grown up.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Was it easy to write the whole unhinged part?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Oddly, I&#8217;m embarrassed to say it was so much easier for me than trying to write somebody who has their act together. I mean, just the thrill of having her rip open candy bars on the floor of her closet and shove them in her mouth, the actual release that I felt. She’s a person who always knows what she&#8217;s going to say in advance, but then if she gets really mad, she just lets loose and says something totally different.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>The film <i>The Notebook</i> comes up an awful lot. Jane professes to hate that film, but I don&#8217;t believe her. Does she really hate <i>The Notebook</i>?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> No, she does not. But as it’s revealed throughout the book, it&#8217;s a touch point for the moment in her life when she stopped believing in love. I happen to be a <i>Notebook</i> lover because I&#8217;m a normal human being. Everybody loves that movie. But there are a lot of holes that you can poke, and it was really fun to play the devil&#8217;s advocate and find those holes.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Each of your novels comes out just before the summer and they make me yearn for summer, like no other book. Where is this fictional seaside place based on, because it&#8217;s not quite the Hamptons.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> No, it is a made-up Long Island town called Oak Shore, same town as in my book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Same-Time-Summer-Annabel-Monaghan/dp/059354496X/ref=sr_1_5?crid=372M55YNRY8LM&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.ywMwtAtZLSvmhz7Y0DEJKlWCv56CBpwQmB8952XlMib5hNo_Rw_7Z7MPyqoO9rVDHlnMPIz5pbZUzHLfeNTGC7hOoolINWs3nD8LOCFlEGLsVCSwrGaAJDTnYz_pb-eY4rZxI8HMEQNjldmIvYhWkxKxAYD2jkBBjZg7z7OlIeXctCrcVJT6zWR5Q9us-G2MFPyB-gCW5vup2EqpkoAeZ42pSTxGIJKrpqw0JYSXqSM.SIlsB6A_wnK4zPHbO5SeLWjwty1N1b-Hz8iLGhNYCEA&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=annabel+monaghan+books&amp;qid=1748027023&amp;sprefix=annabel+monaghan+%2Caps%2C114&amp;sr=8-5" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Same Time Next Summer</a>. It is so fictional that ordinary people have homes on the beach. I like a good fantasy.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> You make it so people want to go there, like me, now.</p>
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<p class="Script"> I don&#8217;t know how to get you to Oak Shore. Don&#8217;t bring your realtor to Oak Shore looking for waterfront property.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>And so is it pretty much the deal with your publisher, where they say, every May, we&#8217;d like a book</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Yes. I&#8217;m in contract to write a book for summer 2026 and summer 2027. Don&#8217;t tell them, but I would do this for free and until I die. I honestly don&#8217;t know what else I&#8217;d be doing. It&#8217;s really what I love to do. And then the culmination of it, in a few weeks I&#8217;m going on book tour and that&#8217;s super fun. And then I&#8217;ll start another book.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Do you not panic a teeny bit with these deadlines? Or do you have enough ideas percolating that you&#8217;re okay?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> I don’t panic. When I was finishing this book,  I was having ideas about the book that I&#8217;m writing now, the next book. I&#8217;m not a good multitasker. Having children was really challenging for me. Like, why are we doing so many different things? So, I was terrified by how much I was thinking about that next book while I was finishing this book. So, I have to shut the door on any ideas. I don&#8217;t even write them down in a notebook. I&#8217;m like, it is not time. I&#8217;m not entertaining this idea yet. And then I start when I&#8217;m done.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>I have to say I got uncomfortable because things were going quite smoothly and I was getting far along in the book and I knew there had to be a looming crisis. I just knew it. And then the crisis came, and I had to speed read past it. It was so uncomfortable. I wanted to get back to the love part.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Oh, I love that it made you uncomfortable.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Very.. and Jack Quinlan is such a bad person. You need to do a sequel where something bad happens to him.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Yes, he gets lice. Is there something worse than that? That was the first thing I could think of.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>That&#8217;s really bad. Dan, the quiet, thoughtful cinematographer who is not exactly what Jane thought he was. Did he come to you quite naturally?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> I just started writing Dan.  I was probably two drafts in before I understood who he was. One thing I&#8217;ll tell you is that I am married to a quiet man. I really like a quiet man.  Leo Vance from <em>Nora Goes Off Script</em> may be the sexiest man alive. But he’s not my type. I adored him while I was writing him, but that&#8217;s not for me. I loved writing a man who just knows who he is and doesn&#8217;t have to justify it to everybody.  I find that very, very attractive. So, you know, maybe my own household sort of snuck in there on this one.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Nice,  I like a quiet man too. Your love scenes, do you read them aloud? What&#8217;s your secret to writing them so convincingly without being in any way pornographic or corny?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> It’s getting easier just because I&#8217;ve been doing it more. I draft those scenes over and over again, and then I put them away and then reread them. Sometimes somebody&#8217;s got three arms. I have to imagine them.</p>
<p class="Script">There are two approaches to writing a love scene. One has body parts in it, and one doesn&#8217;t have body parts in it, like we&#8217;re not naming body parts. So, my approach is we&#8217;re together and you can see how they are together and how it&#8217;s going, but you&#8217;re not saying all the things.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>It&#8217;s very suggestive. You barely mentioned a breast. I think that was it.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> I&#8217;ve gone wild. I&#8217;ve gone totally off the rails. But you know, the truth about all that kind of stuff is the moments before the kiss are more exciting than the kiss. It&#8217;s the anticipation of the thing, the buildup that feels really great. So that&#8217;s fun to write.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>What was the most difficult part to write?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">The thing with her mother, it&#8217;s really complicated. Jane has a very close relationship with her mother. They do and say everything to make each other happy. But they don&#8217;t always say the honest thing. Towards the end of the book, there is more honesty and something kind of blows up. And it was important to me to get that right. And that was very difficult.  I wrote that a lot of times and in a lot of different ways. Opening up the hard conversation and how that would actually look.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Right. And it was very interesting too that the mother had such a different attitude towards love than her daughter, than Jane. She was willing to get hurt.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Her mother would jump off any cliff, like, <i>oh, this is going to be great</i>. <i>He&#8217;s the one, let&#8217;s go</i>. But you know, as often happens, if you have a parent who maybe spends money to their own peril, you become very frugal. We are often a reaction to our parents and Jane saw her mother get her heart broken and put her back together enough times to know that love is not safe.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>I thought this could make a great film. You&#8217;ve got that magical setting, those handsome Finnegans, the steamy scenes, Jane in her Eleanor Roosevelt bathing suit. Do you ever try to make your books into films?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">I have book to film agents in Los Angeles, this very cool duo of young women, and they are sending this out.  Nora Goes Off Script has been optioned, and that&#8217;s something that&#8217;s going to happen in the next year if it happens. I&#8217;ll give you news as it comes.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b><strong> Okay good because I can help with the casting. So, tell us about what you&#8217;re working on now.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Okay, so I am on the second draft of this. I&#8217;m not going to write 13 drafts on this book. This one&#8217;s going to come together, in case my editor&#8217;s listening to this, I swear to God, this is not going to break your heart. So, this is about a woman. She&#8217;s a single mother, she&#8217;s 39, about to turn 40, and she is a part-time kindergarten teacher. She also works for her dad at this fish store that he owns, and she strikes up a fake dating relationship with a man, who is kind of like a Vanderbilt. The whole thing&#8217;s a little bit like Pretty Woman, but there are no hookers.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Ah, she&#8217;s a kindergarten teacher.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Yes. So, she&#8217;s not hired to have sex with him, but he needs a date for a PR reason.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>I take it he&#8217;s somewhat handsome.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> He&#8217;s so handsome. Here&#8217;s what&#8217;s wrong with the world, and I will say this, it&#8217;s much harder to sell a guy to a reader like Dan Finnegan, who probably doesn&#8217;t have health insurance and is maybe like killing himself in his own apartment with the chemicals from his photography, than it is to sell a Vanderbilt.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>So, your work is easier with this man?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">Never going to be easier, but maybe.  I really like him though. He&#8217;s a little troubled.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Oh, good.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Yeah.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Okay, good. Well, I&#8217;m looking forward to talking to you about that one next year. Thank you so much for coming on the show.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Thank you!</p>
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<p><em>May, 2025</em></p>
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		<title>The Love Elixir of Augusta Stern: A Chat with Lynda Loigman About Her Latest Novel</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2025 19:48:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I had the pleasure of speaking to Lynda Cohen Loigman, whose latest book, The Love Elixir of Augusta Stern is going on my rolling top 10 books. Check out my Instagram page Elena Meets the Author and this website for my rolling top 10 favorite reads. Hello Lynda, this is not the first time I&#8217;ve...</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="font-weight: 400;">I had the pleasure of speaking to Lynda Cohen Loigman, whose latest book, <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Love-Elixir-Augusta-Stern-Novel/dp/B0CWB3HYQF/ref=sr_1_1?crid=7XW4AV2TVKWW&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.yO4JMgGqR3OaOu-Ea9JZ1g.35aMAG05kDq0TOJL-qeK9VNoRapi4eqmaHLGPnq4Vjc&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=the+love+elixir+of+augusta+stern&amp;qid=1745414481&amp;sprefix=the+love+elixir%2Caps%2C183&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Love Elixir of Augusta Stern</a> is going on my rolling top 10 books. Check out my Instagram page Elena Meets the Author and this website for my rolling top 10 favorite reads.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">Hello Lynda, this is not the first time I&#8217;ve interviewed you. I interviewed you back in January of 2023 about <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/The-Matchmakers-Gift-A-Novel/dp/B09YJ43P8W/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1DWMUZFJ8S53K&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.VzApQdn-Mhdv4b1JUlzOdQ.-s0bDcp4VX1rh3YRsFnkotR1QHCl5P8XbQ5YvTQ5De8&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=the+matchmaker%27s+gift&amp;qid=1745413370&amp;s=audible&amp;sprefix=the+matchmaker%27s+gift%2Caudible%2C168&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Matchmaker&#8217;s Gift</a>, another great book of yours.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;">I tend to listen to books on walks and/or read in bed at night. With <em>The Love Elixir of Augusta Stern</em> I couldn&#8217;t wait to go on a walk or get in  bed. This book is a clever feel-good romance with its colourful characters, strong sense of place, imaginative plot line, and dual timeline.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">Alternating between a pharmacy in 1920s, Brooklyn, and a drama-filled retirement home in Florida in 1987. It&#8217;s a story about second chances, how whether we&#8217;re 16 or 76 inside, we&#8217;re still the same person, and how it&#8217;s always possible to recapture that magical feeling of our youth. The story is full of old-world charm, suspense, history, and it&#8217;s very funny.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">Aunt Esther and Irving Rivkin had me chuckling throughout. There are some bootlegging gangsters thrown in with Mitzi and Zip Diamond in their furs and fancy cars. The book starts with 79-year-old Augusta Stern, who works for a hospital in New York City. She loves to work and has been lying about her age for decades until on the eve of her 80th birthday, her boss tells her in so many words that it&#8217;s time for Augusta to move on. Augusta hates the idea of retirement but has no choice. So, on the suggestion of her beloved niece, Augusta moves to her retirement community in Florida. No sooner has she arrived than who should she bump into, but the man who broke her heart 60 years ago.</p>
<p>Below are some edited highlights from our chat. You can listen to the full conversation <a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com/p/elena-meets-lynda" target="_blank" rel="noopener">here</a> on <a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Elena Meets the Author</a> or wherever you listen to podcasts.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena: So, Lynda let&#8217;s start with what inspired you to write this wonderful book.</strong> Your author&#8217;s note is fabulous and anyone reading <em>The Love Elixir</em> might want to skip to the back of the book and read that first.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Lynda:</strong> The inspiration really came from two different places. The initial idea for a story about an aging pharmacist came from what I had learned about my husband&#8217;s great-grandmother. She was a pharmacist. She graduated from Fordham Pharmacy College in 1921, which was a very unusual thing. There were very few women in her class.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">But I didn’t really have a story. I keep story ideas in my head. I have this imaginary basket of ideas I keep in my head.  And then I wrote <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/The-Matchmakers-Gift-A-Novel/dp/B09YJ43P8W/ref=sr_1_1?crid=BIGKIEDQVDD3&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.iK3pS4gorqR6cRz6lz8ZO9mXzneDL4Y1fUnwkkXbs7I.fvxyLxgu8U6w3UlZ7BnNzh_MP8Qj40km12H4bPapIPc&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=the+matchmakers+gift&amp;qid=1745414644&amp;s=audible&amp;sprefix=the+matchmakers+gift%2Caudible%2C174&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>The Matchmaker&#8217;s Gift</em></a> and that was the first book where I added a little bit of magical realism to my writing. It was definitely a more joyful story than my first two books and more heartwarming.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">After I wrote that book, a lot of readers wrote to me or told me in person how much they loved it, how it brought them all this joy. Before writing that book. I had never really thought about that. I thought about what I wanted my stories to say. I thought about the messages that I wanted to convey in my stories, but I never really thought about the emotional impact on the reader.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I always want to make people cry for better or for worse. If a reader&#8217;s crying, that&#8217;s good, it means they&#8217;re connecting. But I never thought about getting people through tough times, making people feel happy. And I wanted to write another story like that.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">But I still really had no story.  In the summer of 2021 my dad, who was 84, had a bad fall. He lived in Florida on his own. He was in rehab; he was in the hospital.  It&#8217;s a very familiar story to anybody who&#8217;s my age. I’m in my mid-fifties.  I was down in Florida that whole summer, and he needed an aid. He couldn&#8217;t do anything really on his own anymore.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">By the end of the summer, my brother and I decided we had to move him to assisted living, and he was very reluctant at first because he was thinking about the nursing homes of his grandparents&#8217; time. But when we went to look at these places, he got more excited because my dad was a really social person, and he liked being with people. And so, I moved him there. Every time I would visit him; I would sit with him in the lobby.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">It was like a middle school cafeteria. Everyone was gathering there and there was a lot of chitter chatter and flirting and gossiping and all kinds of stuff. My dad was looking for companionship up until the day he died. He had dated a lot of women throughout the 15 years that he had after my mom died.  And some of the relationships were really nice and some were not. Some of the women were nice and some were not.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I had this moment of panic the first day that I moved him into the assisted living place: What if one of the women who he had dated previously, where it had ended badly, what if she lived there?</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">Wouldn&#8217;t that be very awkward and very bad? And that was sort of where the beginnings of the story came from. Augusta lives in a very active retirement community, not assisted living, but same idea, right? You know, you&#8217;re in this small community looking back at someone from your past, who&#8217;s staring you in the face, who you don&#8217;t want to be with.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">The voices of Irving and Augusta came to me sitting there that summer, spending time with my dad, sitting with him and all those residents.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>Tell us more about the decision to set your story in a 1920’s pharmacy?</strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;">  I wasn&#8217;t really sure about the year to tell you the truth. Picking the year is always one of the trickiest parts. It was that way for <em>The Matchmaker&#8217;s Gift</em> also.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I wasn&#8217;t wedded to the twenties until I learned about the effect of prohibition and the connection between prohibition and pharmacies. Pharmacies were one of the few places where it was legally allowed to sell alcohol. You could get a prescription for one pint of whiskey every 10 days for medicinal purposes. I found this article about how to be a bootlegger, and it talked about how gangsters at that time would create fake pharmacies on paper to be able to get the good whiskey and sell it.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">And then they would flood a pharmacy with fake prescriptions or just steal the shipment from the alley. They would kind of do anything.  I love a gangster story. The idea that I could have a little side gangster story got me really excited.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">So, I decided the twenties would be perfect. And then there was one other thing, which I knew from the beginning. It isn&#8217;t a spoiler because it happens in the first few pages of the book. Augusta&#8217;s mother dies when she&#8217;s very young. I wanted her to die from something that medicine would be able to cure, but not at that time. Diabetes was the perfect answer because insulin wasn&#8217;t available until the early twenties. Before that, diabetes was really a death sentence. People starved themselves to death and their bodies couldn&#8217;t go on. And so, this idea that Solomon Stern, Augusta&#8217;s father, is a man who&#8217;s focused on medicine and science, and the idea that he would have every possible medicine at his disposal except the one thing that might save his wife, was a fascinating, heartbreaking idea to me, and it shaped his character.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">When writing a story. I want something dramatic like that. It was the perfect thing to happen to Solomon Stern, to create a man who we&#8217;re instantly interested in and feel empathy for.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>Your story made me think of my grandmother Ruth Garland Bowes who was one of the first women to graduate from Stanford Medical School in the early 1920’s. While at Stanford she worked on a groundbreaking study on diabetes, partly to help two of her brothers who were stricken with the illness. She was able to significantly improve and extend their lives. She died a long time ago, but I remember her telling my sisters and I stories about her time at Stanford and as a physician</strong>.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"> Wow, that&#8217;s so fascinating.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong>  <strong>I know. I was thinking the twenties is a very ripe period.</strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;">  There are so many things that are different, but you know, people are the same. You know, there&#8217;s a character who gets pregnant out of wedlock. Some readers think that you can&#8217;t have an unmarried woman getting pregnant. Like that didn&#8217;t happen in the twenties, but it happened all the time. Human nature is human nature. People made mistakes back then the same way they do now.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>Can you talk about the role the pharmacy played in the community?</strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;">I read a lot of memoirs by pharmacists, and I talked to as many pharmacists as I could talk to about the old pharmacies. People didn&#8217;t go to doctors first. If you had a rash, a stomach problem, whatever it was, you went to your pharmacist first. And they would make their own, specific creams based on what you told them.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">They were like your priest, your confessor, your rabbi and your therapist, all rolled up into one. Solomon Stern was definitely that for people. So, he really talks about how important it is to keep people&#8217;s confidence. It&#8217;s one of the things that he stresses to Augusta that you don&#8217;t talk about the customers.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>Thank God Augusta could eavesdrop.</strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"> Yes. Pharmacists tended to live above the shop. One of the things I found fascinating was the night bell. In an emergency,  customers could come and ring the bell, and it would ring up in the apartment.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">There were a lot of stories in the memoirs about how annoyed pharmacists would get when someone would ring in the middle of the night for something that was not an emergency, like needing a stamp.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">And there were a lot of interesting anecdotes about how important it was to know your customer, because people would ask for things with the intent to misuse them. So, if Mr. Smith comes in and he&#8217;s asking for arsenic for his wife&#8217;s complexion, but Mrs. Smith&#8217;s complexion is white. (They used arsenic to whiten skin).  And Mr. Smith has been seen around town with some floozy. The pharmacist should know not to be giving the arsenic to Mr. Smith.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>Aunt Esther said that if she were a man, she would&#8217;ve been called an apothecary or a pharmacist. But instead, because she was a woman, she was called a witch.  Tell us about her.</strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;">Aunt Esther is a fascinating character. She comes into their home because their mother is gone. The house is falling apart, the dust on the mantle is an inch thick and they&#8217;re having terrible meals.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">Aunt Esther is from Russia, the old country. But she&#8217;s a newer immigrant. She&#8217;s been in this country for many years, going from relative to relative wherever she&#8217;s needed, a little like Mary Poppins. She comes to their household to help take care of everybody because their mother has died.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">She ends up teaching Augusta so much about healing. And so, her role is to go up against Augusta&#8217;s father. They don&#8217;t get along that well, and it makes Augusta think differently about her career. She&#8217;s always wanted to be a pharmacist, but now she sees that maybe the way her father does things isn&#8217;t the only way to do things, and maybe Aunt Esther can do things more effectively.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I leave it up to the reader to decide if Aunt Esther is a witch or if she is just really empathetic and knowledgeable about what she does.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>One of the things that you said at the beginning of this Q&amp;A is that it hadn&#8217;t occurred to you that you could bring joy to your readers. You really did that with this book</strong>.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;">Thanks. I just feel like we need books like that now. I don&#8217;t want to teach anybody anything. I want to teach myself things. It&#8217;s interesting to do the research, but I just really want to tell a good story.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">There are books that can be beautifully written, they can be literary, whatever. But I want a good story. I want a story that you can sink into. And it doesn&#8217;t need to be so complicated. The more I write, the more I want to simplify my stories. Readers can relate to it when it&#8217;s not so intensely complicated. And this is a simple story. This woman moves to Florida, and she runs into the man who broke her heart 60 years earlier. That is the story. The more I write, the more I realize how important it is to know your story before you start writing.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>And Aunt Esther explains the power of words to Augusta. Can you talk about that?</strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;">So, Aunt Esther has this mortar and pestle that she brings with her from the old country. And there are words written on the inside of it. She says those words every time she mixes up a powder to heal somebody. At some point, Augusta, asks her why she always says these words and why they&#8217;re important. And Esther says something like wicked words have caused wars and, kind words have caused peace. Words have broken hearts. Why shouldn&#8217;t they have the power to heal?</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I think when we speak something out loud, it makes it real. There&#8217;s something about the spoken word that is a really powerful thing.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>What thoughts would you like readers to take away from after they finish The Love Elixir?</strong></p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"> I think it&#8217;s very important to never give up on life. It&#8217;s this idea that it is never too late, but not necessarily for romance.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">One of the things that&#8217;s really special to me about this book is Augusta and Esther are two women who&#8217;ve chosen a very different path. Neither one of them has gotten married and neither one of them has had children. I think it&#8217;s important to have characters who don’t follow a traditional path.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">Augusta didn&#8217;t have this romance when she was young. But that doesn&#8217;t mean that her life was tragic. She has had this amazing career that meant so much to her.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">When she gets to Florida, she opens herself up. She makes new friends. She finds romance and that&#8217;s important to this story, but it&#8217;s not the most important thing. She&#8217;s also practicing her craft in the way she&#8217;s always wanted to.</p>
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<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>Well, thank you so much Lynda. That was really interesting.</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><em>April, 2025</em></p>
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		<title>Highlights from Q&#038;A with Neroli Lacey, author of The Perfumer&#8217;s Secret</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I spoke with Neroli Lacey about her debut novel, The Perfumer&#8217;s Secret. Her book is a page turner, a feast for the senses, and  a love story. The Perfumer&#8217;s Secret is  a love story to southern France, the region in and around Grasse where the Med meets the Alps.  And it&#8217;s a love story to...</p>
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<p class="Script">I spoke with Neroli Lacey about her debut novel, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Perfumers-Secret-Neroli-Lacey-ebook/dp/B0CW1C53H6/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.bsi3UpVm2KTCH_egnGhsX3oNRdFfdsirMzByOw5AIIcsNSHGUte0dvkyGHzE7pL73JQKaoZvKX4B1tRnsNVimShkDxs2tdjQxYtH16geB0S3aajf4e6UDvuK0BMbKNvR63YM6vuZTlbCGCNQyk9FgJnVRdzrTzzIMwarQ97R3R4kuU3Ajzae99OpixWF_znbUNDYsOqhH4CNwVRoruZlwI4SaDqFlEeKQL16zRZCkXQ.qOiXbuuQLoian3-AQcjRh-C1T22jYgXS1IJBYA4wc1k&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=the+perfumer%27s+secret&amp;qid=1742739089&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Perfumer&#8217;s Secret</a>. Her book is a page turner, a feast for the senses, and  a love story.</p>
<p class="Script"><em>The Perfumer&#8217;s Secret</em> is  a love story to southern France, the region in and around Grasse where the Med meets the Alps.  And it&#8217;s a love story to French culture, craftsmanship and tradition. And finally, it&#8217;s a love story between two very different people. You&#8217;ve got a dynamic plot and a sublime setting. Reading the book made me want to hop on a plane to Nice.</p>
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<p class="Script">Neroli&#8217;s book centres around a gutsy, young, Manhattan based documentary maker named Zandy, who turns her lens on a legendary perfume maker in the south of France that happens to be celebrating its 300th anniversary.</p>
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<p class="Script">Zandy has been assigned this story by her boss. She&#8217;s not thrilled about what looks like a puff piece, only to discover there&#8217;s a lot more to this perfume house than pressed flowers, a dashing CEO to start, and a family history that doesn&#8217;t smell so fragrant. The story is not black and white. The truth doesn&#8217;t always tell the whole story, which is one reason why I loved this book. Below are the edited highlights of my lively chat with Neroli. You can listen to the full episode<a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com/p/exploring-the-secrets-of-southern" target="_blank" rel="noopener"> here</a> on my podcast <a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Elena Meets the Author</a> or wherever you listen to podcasts. Even better, <strong>we are giving away the e-book</strong> on the show notes of the episode.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>ELENA:</b> <strong>Neroli, let&#8217;s start by discussing the themes of  <em>The Perfumer&#8217;s Secret</em>. How would you describe them?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"><b>NEROLI:</b> Well, first of all, thank you for that amazing description. You really captured this particular corner of France and the tradition of craft here. So, thank you for that.</p>
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<p class="Script">I think the central theme of the book is that there&#8217;s no such thing as a single truth, everybody has their own truth, and the truth is made up of a multifaceted version of everybody&#8217;s story.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>ELENA:</b> <strong>That makes sense to me. I was thinking that even at the very beginning of the book when Zandy is having her little fling with Luke, he says something like that… That there are so many different ways to see the world which echoes your theme.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">That was quite intentional. As a novelist, you&#8217;re like a puppeteer, dropping a little bit of the theme in for the reader&#8217;s subconscious mind to start thinking about.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>ELENA:</b>  <strong>You wrote in your newsletter that some writers spend their life building up to the novel they were meant to write. Do you consider <i>The Perfumer&#8217;s Secret</i> the novel you were meant to write? And how did your life before this book prepare you to be a novelist?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Well, I&#8217;ve done a lot of things on the way to writing this book. I was a journalist for many years. I wrote for all the great British newspapers, The Times, The Sunday Times, The Daily Telegraph, The Guardian, The Evening Standard. I&#8217;ve been an investment banker and a commodity futures trader. I&#8217;ve travelled all over the world.</p>
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<p class="Script"> I&#8217;m the proud mother of two wildly spirited daughters and an adventurous stepson. I have been training my whole life to do this work and I&#8217;m now living the life of my dreams.</p>
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<p class="Script">So, to answer the first part of your question, is this the ultimate book? I think it was the book I was meant to write then. It&#8217;s been two years in the publishing process. For me as a writer, I&#8217;m constantly raising the bar of where I want to be. So, I think it&#8217;s a balancing act between being content with the work that you put out in the world, slowing down a minute and being happy with the work that you&#8217;ve done and celebrating that. And at the same time, learning to write character. I&#8217;ll be doing that, please God, for the rest of my life. There is no way to master this. It&#8217;s a never-ending journey.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>ELENA:</b> <strong>Did you always know you&#8217;d love to be a novelist?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">You know, I did, but I didn&#8217;t dare take the step. I think two things, you can&#8217;t pay the bills as a novelist unless you&#8217;re, I don&#8217;t know, Kristen Hanna or Emily Henry or Colleen Hoover and maybe back then in my twenties and thirties and forties, it wasn&#8217;t quite the right time for me.</p>
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<p class="Script">I knew because reading books made me feel alive in a way that nothing else did. Perhaps only my beloved family. But then it&#8217;s a long journey to have the courage to pursue that there&#8217;s a lot of why me and can I do this and so on.</p>
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<p class="Script"> I think what I&#8217;ve learned most from this experience not just of writing &#8211; I&#8217;ve written three novels and I&#8217;m just beginning my fourth now- this is the first one to be published &#8211; but what I have learned is certainly in terms of publishing the book and now engaging with the world with my work, I have really learned to follow your spark.</p>
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<p class="Script">If you have a certain spark, listen to it. You don&#8217;t have to have the path to get there. You take one step and the path appears. And for me it was a very long journey.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>ELENA:</b> <b>Love it. Great. Thank you.</b> <b>Why did your mother choose to call you Neroli? And how fitting that perfume began with a woman named Princess Nerola.</b></p>
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<p class="Script"> My mother was a trailblazing, extraordinary woman who, in the 1940s, began trading essential oils. Those are the oils which come from pressing flowers. She wanted to be a journalist. So, she started off in journalism on Fleet Street, where the newspapers are in London.</p>
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<p class="Script">And her father saw her coming out of a pub and said, ‘That&#8217;s it, no daughter of mine is ever going to be a journalist.’ He placed an advert in The Times for a secretary offering her services with fluent French and German. My mother was hired by a trading firm in in the city of London. That&#8217;s like Wall Street.</p>
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<p class="Script">And she soon became their top trader. By 1949, the bank had come to her saying the business was in trouble and would she buy it, which she indeed did. She travelled all over the world trading commodities, all through my childhood, taking me hither and thither, including to Grasse.</p>
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<p class="Script">She was a remarkable woman, sort of like Margaret Thatcher. In the trade she sold a lot of lemongrass. I&#8217;m a twin and the trade press said, Mrs Eileen Day Lawson has given birth to twins. Surely, they&#8217;re going to be called Citronella and Lemongrass, which luckily, we weren&#8217;t.</p>
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<p class="Script">We were called Neroli and Virginia. And Neroli is named after Princess Nerola, from a province in the north of Italy. She used to perfume her gloves and her love letters to the princes of the courts around Europe with this incredible bitter orange blossom. So, she&#8217;s thought to be the founder of the use of perfume in the West. And that&#8217;s why my mother called me Neroli.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>ELENA:</b><strong> This book was meant to be.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> I think it was.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>ELENA:</b> <strong>I wanted to say that not only was this book a joy to read, but I learned a lot. You have so many intriguing facts. I had no idea that one&#8217;s sense of smell is 10,000 times stronger than any of our other faculties.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"><strong>And that there&#8217;s a museum dedicated solely to violets in Tourette sur Loup, a medieval village in the foothills of France, where your novel takes place</strong>.</p>
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<p class="Script"><strong> Which came first, the idea of the novel or, having a holiday home in Tourette sur Loup?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script">Very much the home. We were living, if you can believe it, in Minneapolis, Minnesota. My husband&#8217;s work took us there. I grew up in Kensington in London. Minneapolis was a very foreign place to me. And it was Arctic cold. We were raising two small daughters. So, it was absolute madness to buy a holiday home in the southeast corner of France near the border with Italy where the mountains come down to the sea.</p>
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<p class="Script">It was bonkers, but it was love. We used to come basically just at Christmas when the girls were small and couldn&#8217;t leave the school year and so on. As they say in France, it was ‘un coup de foudre’, love at first sight.</p>
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<p class="Script">The more time we spent here, we hiked in the mountains, and we got to know the ways of the old stone village and the crafts and the slower pace of life and the traditions. And I realized that I had to write a love letter. I&#8217;m in love with the mountains. I look out at the beautiful Alps. I had to write a love letter to this landscape and that&#8217;s how The Perfumer&#8217;s Secret came to being.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>ELENA:</b> <strong>Was the novel inspired by any particular story?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> No, it was inspired by this landscape and by wanting to write a love letter. Then I had to figure out what kind of a story I could tell. It wasn&#8217;t something that came fully formed.</p>
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<p class="Script">I had put myself on a regime of two pages a day. I mean, you can&#8217;t call yourself a writer if you don&#8217;t write two pages a day, right? So, I put myself on this regime, two pages a day which sometimes is hard, because what are you going to write about?</p>
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<p class="Script">So, on one particular day, we were on a train up the East Coast to Connecticut to see my daughter at school. And I hadn&#8217;t written my pages, and I was tearing my hair out saying to my husband on the train, I don&#8217;t know what I&#8217;m going to write about, and I can&#8217;t go to bed before I&#8217;ve written these two pages.</p>
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<p class="Script">And he said, ‘you&#8217;ve got to put a secret in there.’ He&#8217;s read a thousand mystery novels. I grew up in England having read a lot of literary fiction, which haven’t got much of a story. And it was such fun to hear his ideas about the engine of story and turning pages.</p>
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<p class="Script">So, he gave me a few hints. Writing is such a solitary process. It&#8217;s really fun to share it, especially if you have a husband who&#8217;s excited about it like mine is. And so, I can actually remember that moment when the secret came into the story.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>ELENA:</b> <strong>Last question, can you recommend any book for our listeners?</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Oh, I certainly can. Thank you for asking that question. If you&#8217;re only going to read one book this year, read <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Audible-Isola-A-Novel/dp/B0D5Z29FDJ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=25VZV0LC4U7OP&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.1w1FnZMMI7svIb2KqK-YQGR0sqX1XOMrHHJNjmfehySkYIdLf0zHGeDhpJXvSQgHP8cHdmUHupwcTSG9e69d3TM8YrP270vl4urUwlsQCNkDTSJdJsUvqM_bDyqTHszJPtdpqPZh3AML8WM44eJWb5-1AHN0Cs58PrwB01S4q3ccn7KpgU438HSDKJJHeEzVaDlpZnWn_NCzctF98_jTmCsj3cfcqy188QJebF9CnVE.jUuaOmsMpu16NrbRtlzuRvVe_Bhsdpe_u81lTPNlAJI&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=isola+allegra+goodman&amp;qid=1742743117&amp;sprefix=isola+%2Caps%2C186&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Isola</a> by Allegra Goodman. It&#8217;s got a gorgeous cover. It&#8217;s set in 16th century Périgord, France, I had zero interest in 16th century France.</p>
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<p class="Script">But believe me, this character, you&#8217;re going to go crazy for this character. And it&#8217;s an amazing story. This is the novel that this writer has been working towards. I think for the whole of her life. It is fantastic book. I think it&#8217;s going to be my favourite book of 2025.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>ELENA:</b> <strong>Well, that is it for my questions, Neroli. Thank you so much for such great answers and stories.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> Thank you, Elena. It&#8217;s amazing to have somebody else read your work and appreciate the things that you were trying to communicate. And what&#8217;s more fun than talking about books?</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>ELENA:</b> <strong>Nothing. It was all a pleasure.</strong></p>
<p><em>March, 2025</em></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p> I met with Rochelle Weinstein, best-selling author of seven women&#8217;s fiction novels, including This Is Not How It Ends. Rochelle&#8217;s eighth novel, We Are Made of Stars, which releases on February 25th, is a romantic suspenseful page turner. It&#8217;s got everything. Characters who are hiding things, bad decisions, flawed people who love each other, betrayal...</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="font-weight: 400;"> I met with Rochelle Weinstein, best-selling author of seven women&#8217;s fiction novels, including <a href="https://www.amazon.com/This-Not-Ends-Rochelle-Weinstein-ebook/dp/B07NCY8CXD/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1IU3PBEYKED16&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.GgoHWfXV0g4MO6kVz13DIg.CxyDHXHxyt7sUHG151YAkgUA42S1jdo9cvGxRqW25wc&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=this+is+not+how+it+endsrochelle+b.+weinstein&amp;qid=1740161301&amp;sprefix=this+is+not+how+it+enrochelle+b.+weinstein%2Caps%2C256&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">This Is Not How It Ends.</a> Rochelle&#8217;s eighth novel, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/We-Are-Made-Stars-Novel-ebook/dp/B0D1L16C5Q/ref=sr_1_1?crid=8M56AVE4KZLJ&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.HROGm7nHEXzOuZFFxpG_fQ.XbXtSy1xMCONPLqrQ3F6X3x3ZCTwLj98eOo6oXkWwhc&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=we+are+made+of+stars+rochelle+b.+weinstein&amp;qid=1740161249&amp;sprefix=we+are+made+%2Caps%2C267&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">We Are Made of Stars</a>, which releases on February 25<sup>th</sup>, is a romantic suspenseful page turner. It&#8217;s got everything. Characters who are hiding things, bad decisions, flawed people who love each other, betrayal and redemption, all taking place in an idyllic, magical inn in North Carolina.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">Not only did I feel like I was on a vacation at this sumptuous inn, but the complex characters plus distinct back stories pulled me in. I liked watching their dramas unfold, building to a page turning emotional climax.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">A little background: Renée and Jean-Paul De La Rue face the daunting decision to close their beloved inn Vis Ta Vie for good. Meanwhile their 8 guests are facing their own struggles. Three couples are in crisis: Hollywood celebs, Leo and Penny, are spending their silver anniversary together while on the cusp of divorce.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">Lucy, a practical minded therapist, and Henry, an astronomer with his head in the stars, are on the rocks. And former lawyer, now stay at home mother, Sienna, and dynamic sports agent, Adam, look perfect, but looks can be deceiving.  Add finally, self-absorbed single mother Cassidy and her sulky 15-year-old daughter, Rosalie are barely speaking.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">Below are some edited highlights from my conversation with Rochelle. You can listen to the full episode <a href="https://open.substack.com/pub/elenabowes/p/exploring-the-depths-of-womens-fiction?r=huv3q&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;showWelcomeOnShare=true" target="_blank" rel="noopener">here</a> on my podcast Elena Meets the Author available wherever you listen to podcasts.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>Rochelle, before we get into your book, can you tell us how you went from being a secret writer into a somewhat prolific one with eight books out there.</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle:</strong> Well, first, thank you, Elena, for having me. It&#8217;s a pleasure to be here. I was laughing when you were listing all the characters, because I&#8217;m like, Oh my God, how did I write all these characters and keep up with it?</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I was always a writer, a secretive journal writer back in the day. I was also a huge reader. I used to steal my mother&#8217;s Sidney Sheldon, Danielle Steele. I was reading those books when I was  about 10 years old.  I like to say that they raised me in a way. They were my salvation. They were healing for me. My parents were divorced at the time, so there were some lonely times.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">And I felt such refuge in books. At the same time, I was the journal writer, and I never had the courage or the self-confidence to put any type of writing out in the world.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">My career path went an entirely different way. I was in the music business in South Beach in Miami and the company was bought and moved to New York City. I had just had twin boys. I&#8217;d always worked since the age of 14 and I felt I was at this career crossroads.  I always felt that I had a story to tell.  I literally sat down, wrote 110, 000 words of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/What-Leave-Behind-Rochelle-Weinstein-ebook/dp/B007GEJTZK/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3BWJWTSQAQCBB&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.h5eHxog8arsONnqPPTbMXbyipbpL5sovPVwotNyT3JcrcGr7OlyIxW5FUhExHSv-jRpbs7hD0rB1O9g6opKtlg.EyeUuX7DXUM2d9cBvtgj9ecow11JbWyy0MDzn_VY8ag&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=what+we+leave+behind+rochelle+weinstein&amp;qid=1740070636&amp;sprefix=what+we+leave+behind+rochelle%2Caps%2C298&amp;sr=8-1">What We Leave Behind</a> and that was the start of a career. It was a lark that turned into something bigger than I had expected.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>Wow. Did you have that story percolating for a while?</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle:</strong> There’s a lot of fiction and non-fiction in my first novel. A lot of it is my own self-discovery and the way I dealt with my parents’ divorce, the way I dealt with the men in my life and what I learned from years of work on myself.  I had a message that I really wanted to share with the world, and I felt like I could help other young women navigate through loss, insecurity and abandonment.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">And I just basically fictionalized all these deep feelings into a story, and I made it entertaining</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>Of these eight books you’ve written, is there a common theme or thread to all of them?</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle:</strong> There’s always some type of loss and resiliency, some emotional depth. There&#8217;s always a grey area. I like to explore the grey area.  I&#8217;m not a very black and white person. I see things in the shades of grey. I like to portray stories where we can see all sides and be able to show a little bit more compassion for the people around us.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>I read that the working title of this book was The Inn, and you described it as The Big Chill meets Nine Perfect Strangers. Can you elaborate on that?</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle:</strong> It&#8217;s so funny because as the iterations of this book have developed, now I like to say my elevator pitch is, One Week in Summer, Eight Lives Forever Changed. Think White Lotus Meets Virgin River.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena: How did you choose to set the novel in North Carolina?</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle:</strong> I live in South Florida, and we spent our summers in the mountains of North Carolina, starting at the age of four, when my single mom was head of Girls Hill, a sleepaway camp in Hendersonville, North Carolina.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">And I lived for these summers in the mountains, the smell, the scenery. I&#8217;m a nature girl at heart. So fast forward, I got married, we had kids, we would take our kids to the mountains of North Carolina. We have a place that we go to in the summers in Beach Mountain.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">And nearby there&#8217;s this inn called the Inn at Little Pond Farm. And the inn in my novel is based entirely on the inn at Little Pond Farm.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">They had a communal table, which only seated ten people, and you could end up talking to complete strangers while the gourmet chef would cook a five-course meal for you.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">What&#8217;s so incredible are the seeds that are planted at this table when you&#8217;re with strangers. I was fascinated by the interactions between the strangers and what you could learn, what you could find out about people, the people who didn&#8217;t like each other. I decided that I needed to write a story about the dynamics of this table. I felt like the table was just such a great starting point for a story.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>One of your character’s loves astronomy? Is that something you&#8217;re interested in?</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle:</strong> Not at all.  I did some research on that. Carl Sagan says we all come from stars and from stardust. I felt like the table was a metaphor for the sun.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">And the characters were the stars orbiting the sun. They gravitated around this piece, and it connected them or it exploded around them. I viewed the whole star piece as just a metaphor for these relationships.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>I&#8217;m wondering if there were certain characters that appeared to you from the very beginning.</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle:</strong> This idea has been percolating for a while. So, when I sat down to finally write it, I knew these were my characters. I knew I wanted to do a mother daughter dynamic. I knew I wanted couples who were best friends from college, reliving their youth at the inn.  I knew I wanted some celebrity to shake things up. And I knew I wanted to have the Renee and Paul, the owners.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I stapled six giant poster boards together and cut out pictures of celebrities from People Magazine. I&#8217;m very visual and I need to just see somebody to describe a face, the curvature of their chin. I had index cards for each day and each character had their arc and their goal for a specific scene. I had to see it visually.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>Were these characters modelled after movie stars? Did you have a picture of a movie star for Leo?</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle:</strong> The characters that I pulled out of People magazine three or four years ago are different than who I would have envisioned today. Leo was Rob Lowe. And I had Blake Lively as Sienna, but now seeing all her troubles, I think people might not be thrilled to see Blake Lively.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong>, <strong>Did you have a particular fondness for any of the characters?</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle:</strong> People ask who&#8217;s your favourite character. Which is your favourite book? That&#8217;s like asking who’s your favourite child. But I loved writing Rosalie. There&#8217;s something about writing young girls. Something really pivotal must have happened to me at the age of 15.  I&#8217;m stuck in this youthful 15-year-old girl&#8217;s body and voice.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">I also loved writing, Penny and Leo.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong>? <strong>Is there a particular scene that you really loved writing?</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle:</strong> I loved the unpeeling of the onion at the table. I loved the last scene of the book. I loved Sienna and Lucy in the wine cellar. The scenes that are the most emotionally charged, I loved so much.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>At one point in the story, Penny, who has been married for 25 years to the Hollywood celebrity Leo, gives some advice to a younger couple who are having marital problems. She says, if there&#8217;s one thing you should focus on, it&#8217;s not whether you love this person, because the answer is yes. The real question is, can you live without this person? And if you can&#8217;t live without them, then do everything in your power to fix it. I thought that was a very wise piece of advice.</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle:</strong> Sometimes I wonder where (these nuggets) came from. It&#8217;s been a while since I wrote that book. You know, you get so deep into your characters, and I felt that that was something that Penny would have said, given her history with Leo.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> Yeah,</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle:</strong> Like you really get into character.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>Might you ever write a sequel? I thought there were certain characters we’re invested in and we’re not sure what’s going to happen to them.</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle:</strong> Never say never. None of my books are part of a series, they&#8217;re all standalones. This one definitely lends itself to that more.  I turned in my ninth book two Fridays ago. All I can say is it&#8217;s an epic love story</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>Oh, wow. You write a book in a year?</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">Rochelle: I&#8217;ve been writing a book a year, but I&#8217;m going to slow down.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>You clearly have tons of ideas. Do you write them down as they come to you?</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle:</strong> Yes. I have a file folder called book ideas. And I actually have synopses for books ten and eleven.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena:</strong> <strong>Amazing.  I know that you recommend books for the local NBC affiliate and for some magazines. What books are you recommending?</strong></p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle: </strong>Nicola Kraus has a new book coming out <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Best-We-Could-Hope-Novel/dp/1662522649/ref=sr_1_1?crid=10Y4TORDFW716&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.oWVTn9HMqGYV2pc1MPXBIvdzX-bOOGDZEOGYyeNthU8.n0KoWhTZ8ifZ53Kfd0jml6UaUav3QvEgpzsJuY47pog&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=the+best+we+could+hope+for+nicola+kraus&amp;qid=1740072114&amp;sprefix=the+best+we+%2Caps%2C226&amp;sr=8-1">The Best We Could Hope For</a>.  And I&#8217;m excited about Jackie Friedland&#8217;s <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Counting-Backwards-Novel-Jacqueline-Friedland/dp/1400347300/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1A0GRQQD4HLP9&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.alR696Y1hkKUFZSuGq0Fb4yXbnkXhuOzb6Qb5z6c6DHGjHj071QN20LucGBJIEps.xtPS63rZzq5K5G0aczp-Uue-5qelF1EnTz_i88o1Wvo&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=counting+backwards+jacqueline+friedland&amp;qid=1740071869&amp;sprefix=counting+backwards%2Caps%2C262&amp;sr=8-1">Counting Backwards</a> That&#8217;s on my night table There&#8217;s obviously, the Queen, Annabelle Monaghan, I can&#8217;t wait until her new book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Its-Love-Story-Annabel-Monaghan/dp/0593714105/ref=sr_1_3?crid=2JKWA9ULNL2SK&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.IuXY0180N2iNsVrkzqCwhCkZ8lVylYD-FaqkSzyybuUvXnCyaU2d9yC_Lkyj9-AeBOIJEkJDExY4OufNcU4UkasDBPBnspDeR-KDZn9dd_BvtY6_1vBboFpetTFhd9OV8_jneZvK8kSem5boATpzm_M9XYyDbEDDXWskkGeRhL5USFvT9mbLJ8AxBa66iGVW1kPOWRIR7gCtFLSy_Bq1ZCxFVVIDWm33QCR2EB2UhhQ.tHztBUHICXHf42N-89rTJMeNgkegsq3puuauTejjn48&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=annabelle+monaghan+books&amp;qid=1740072170&amp;sprefix=anabel+mo%2Caps%2C233&amp;sr=8-3">It’s a Love Story</a> comes out. I read it and it&#8217;s of course amazing.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Elena: </strong>She&#8217;s great. I&#8217;m interviewing her in May. I think that&#8217;s it for my questions<strong>. </strong>Thank you, and good luck with all your writing.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Rochelle:</strong> Thank you, Elena. I appreciate it. It was a pleasure talking to you.</p>
<p><em>February, 2025</em></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p> I spoke with Anastasia Rubis, who goes by Stacy, the author of Oriana, a wonderful moving novel about the trailblazing Italian journalist, Oriana Fallaci. Oriana was an international superstar, arguably the best journalist in the world in the 1960s and 70s. She was a woman in a man&#8217;s world, which makes her accomplishments that much...</p>
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<p class="Script"> I spoke with Anastasia Rubis, who goes by Stacy, the author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Audible-Oriana-Novel-Fallaci/dp/B0DJRMDB9K/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2TFSGVWFE82ZU&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.-lTu5vuVz6ByZxAzNLUwWOC0g718cxtJja-gaDngHMTuw43ypjD4_yYLciwvnAnmjpI_xK1Q5jxby1cJIZPj5NYGNif5SnwhVJcpQdzGCqWzua0CoJS8xvN4TnSAYG6ecaQYt7xaMszH0Rdoi8YAqkzIPQjU35n5we5xLkxzpt-RieqHcSkzZhyy44uIdFvElZx5s_cmNX-DTPxHHpzz17jYPYmpF8Q9G64SPv_nWkQ.pVymv7QXXJA8cNwscRFGLTdoZALA7mE4P5lXb9xptWk&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=oriana&amp;qid=1739133132&amp;sprefix=oriana%2Caps%2C108&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Oriana</a>, a wonderful moving novel about the trailblazing Italian journalist, Oriana Fallaci. Oriana was an international superstar, arguably the best journalist in the world in the 1960s and 70s. She was a woman in a man&#8217;s world, which makes her accomplishments that much more impressive.</p>
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<p class="Script">For some reason, Oriana is not as well known in the States as she is in Europe, which hopefully will change with Stacy&#8217;s debut novel. Christiane Amanpour said Oriana&#8217;s penetrative, fearless interviews with world leaders, as well as celebrities of the day, should be required reading for all journalism students.</p>
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<p class="Script">I&#8217;ll be honest, when I started the book, I worried that it would be too dry, too intellectual for me. But Oriana was anything but dry. She was fiery, feisty, quick witted, extremely intelligent, a romantic, passionate, not to mention attractive and glamorous. I was soon swept away by the humanity in Oriana&#8217;s take on the world.</p>
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<p class="Script">Below are some edited highlights from my conversation with Stacy Rubis. You can listen to the entire episode <a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com/p/elena-meets-anastasia-rubis?r=huv3q&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;triedRedirect=true" target="_blank" rel="noopener">here</a> on <a href="https://elenabowes.substack.com/podcast" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Elena Meets the Author</a> or wherever you listen to podcasts.</p>
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<h1>Oriana&#8217;s Fearless Interview Style</h1>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:  Hello Stacy. I loved your book. I was just so impressed how fearless Oriana was when interviewing leaders of the day. </b></p>
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<p class="Script"> Exactly. My favorite quote of hers is, ‘I&#8217;m not intimidated by anybody.’ She interviewed Colonel Qaddafi, the Ayatollah Khomeini, Yasser Arafat amongst others. These are people with guns and guards in the room. They&#8217;re dictators and she just goes for it.</p>
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<p class="Script">She asks the most provocative, persistent, impolite questions and she&#8217;s not afraid to do that and I find that amazing.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena: I have a quote from you where you talk about your favorite Oriana lines:  ‘You must be joking’ to a dictator who lied in answer to her question. There were armed guards in the room. And she prodded Gaddafi, “You don&#8217;t remember? You should. And also to Gaddafi, “I want to understand why everyone dislikes you so much.” To Kissinger, “Unless I&#8217;m mistaken, you&#8217;re a very cold man, Dr. Kissinger.&#8221; Do you have a favorite interview?</b></p>
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<p class="Script"> The Kissinger one, but also, I really love the  interview with the then prime minister of Israel, Golda Meir. Golda and Oriana really hit it off. Oriana really respected Golda. She met Golda in her home in Tel Aviv. It was a very simple home. The housekeeper had gone home. Golda served coffee and cookies and washed her own dishes. They had a serious conversation about peace in the Middle East, but then Golda opened up to Oriana as a woman about the heartbreak of her life. And it was basically that Golda was in love with the same man from the age of 15, and they married, and they had children, but Golda really wanted a bigger life on the world stage, and he wanted a quieter life.</p>
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<p class="Script">And so that led to their separation. But Golda told Oriana that she loved him until the day he died. And I think that Oriana understood from Golda that sometimes love is not enough. That for a woman who has ambition, it’s really hard to make it work. And I think Oriana was already experiencing that in her own life, to meld the professional and the personal.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <b>That was great aspect to your book, the conflict Oriana had forever, that she was this fantastic journalist, but she grew up knowing in Italy you had to be a wife and a mother, and take care of your husband, and have children, and no matter how successful she was, she didn&#8217;t have that.</b></p>
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<p class="Script"> She called it a full life that she wanted, which is family and a profession. She was born in 1929. So, she would be almost a hundred today and there weren&#8217;t many role models for women who were doing both. Succeeding at home, succeeding in the world. And that&#8217;s what I find so poignant about Oriana&#8217;s story. As tough as she was- she basically elbowed her way to the top of a male dominated field, she never went to university. she was born poor, she barely spoke English when she came to the United States &#8211; she made it to the point where Newsweek called her the greatest interviewer of her time. Dick Cavett introduced her on his show as a legend. She made it to the top, and yet, there was a price to pay for a woman of her generation.</p>
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<p class="Script">I find that incredibly poignant and that&#8217;s really what I wanted to be at the heart of my book. What I found surprising in doing events and talking about Oriana to people is that young women really relate to the novel. Which makes me happy in one way, but sad in another, because we are still dealing with the challenges that Oriana had, which are work life balance, reproductive rights, and sexism in the workplace. The fact that young women can still relate today really says something.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <b>As successful as the chain-smoking Oriana was, she struggled at love. She seemed to fall for the wrong men, men who were jealous of her success, until she met Alexander Panagoulis, a Greek poet and resistance fighter, ten years her junior.</b> <b>So, I&#8217;m guessing, that a lot of the fabulous love scenes in your book are drawn from <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Man-Oriana-fallaci/dp/0671252410/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1X53UPDO67K3J&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.3g20kSkivO7RaysG7G7ILGRrGifrlzctfEWOw7WSpD4FB3vLESlFH3_YQz-jX2kCBe2yC9Kt86zovmXEHOCId7dfVL9YkJqZv-9KDxvy7Ap12z1XmOvgD_TfoB8q8I5r7TZSVM21GxHXcHaKhqcDd5Ia12IosQeqiJYktN7aegjJTGDIo4-IvIKrNvhq3xsk.zeibm1q99qb4dpmvUfe9RTEalP77mE4nxUyskD9xYPU&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=a+man+oriana+fallaci&amp;qid=1739133172&amp;sprefix=a+man+oriana%2Caps%2C105&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A Man, </a>Oriana’s book about Alexander?</b></p>
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<p class="Script"> The scenes are based on reality, but they&#8217;re fictionalized.  I&#8217;m a big romantic, and I think Oriana and Alexander is one of the greatest love stories that we don&#8217;t know.</p>
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<p class="Script">It has passion and politics. She was 10 years older than him. They lived in different countries. She was the powerful one in the couple. She was at the peak of her journalism profession when she met him, and he was just out of prison. He didn&#8217;t have a job. He didn&#8217;t have money.</p>
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<p class="Script">A couple of journalists have called the book sexy.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>The story is definitely sexy.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> It was an electric love affair, very charged. They had real values and ideals and were willing to give up a lot for those ideals. So, it&#8217;s very dramatic. Alexander is a real figure. He resisted Greece&#8217;s dictatorship from 1967 to 1974. He almost sacrificed his life to get rid of the dictator. He was thrown into jail, was tortured for five years and when he got out, he still didn&#8217;t stop and he was eventually elected to Parliament He decided to try to affect change from the inside. But his enemies assassinated him and made it look like a car accident.</p>
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<p class="Script">And so, again, a very dramatic, true story. Oriana loved him for those last three years that he was alive. They were together in Italy and in Greece. She calls him her great love. I think he reminded her a lot of her father who resisted Italy&#8217;s occupation and who fought for freedom and human rights and for the little people. And that was the same with Alexander.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <strong>Alexander wasn&#8217;t diminished by her success at all. He was so proud of her.</strong></p>
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<p class="Script"> In prison, he read her books. He said reading her books gave him the fire and the courage to stay alive in prison.</p>
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<p class="Script"><b>Elena:</b> <b>And this is all before he even met her?</b></p>
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<p class="Script">Yes. So basically, he fell in love with her by reading her books, and then when he got out of prison, by some kismet, some universal coincidence, she decided to go interview him. So, she left Italy and went to Athens on his third day of freedom to interview him. She stole the assignment from somebody else at her newspaper.</p>
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<p class="Script">Somebody else was supposed to go to interview the Greek freedom fighter. And she&#8217;s like, no, I will go, and she did. And it was love at first sight.</p>
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